I think I love my bestfriend :/

well, I am female... and I think im in love with my female best friend! help me! I have no idea what do do because she is straight and so am i.
i cant get her out of my head and im loosing sleep over it, everytime im around her I get butterflys in my stomach and just want to kiss her. we have kissed before but only messing about on the cheek and stuff, I want so much more from her but I dont eve have the guts to tell her. I find myself looking at txts she sends me sayin ily and things and I look at them for hours wondering if she actually loves me back or if shes just saying it because shes my friend. I cant go a day without txting her or ringing her. when she calls me and I look at her name on my phone, my stomach sinks into nothing, I dont know why I feel this way but it is really starting to scare me. I really dont want to loose her, she is everything to me, I just dont know what to do
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Nov 12, 2011
It is tottaly normal the first time I ever kissed anybody I kissed another girl you may not really be a lesbian or bi-sexual but if you feel a certin way twords a person either it be male or female then you should let them know. there is nothing wrong with that im only 14 and I know that your scared that people will say your gay and your disgusting but if people really truley know you and care for you then they will accept you no matter what.
The best thing you can do right now is nothing. Come back down to earth and think this out. If you continue your friendship with her and she feels the same way as you do, it will surface and you'll know. If she doesn't you'll learn that too.

Communicate with her but don't ask her direct questions about herself. Instead, bring up the general subject and listen to how she feels about it. If you say, "I saw two girls kissing" and she say's "Yuck!" you know the answer. If she sounds like she accepts the idea, ask her if she could kiss another girl. If she qualifies on that, ask her, "How about me?"
Rob
Answered Nov 14, 2011
geez rob....ur always good at answering
Yeah! Please help me ! Rob you always seem to know what to say. I need some advice. Look at my questions
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL. All relationships start with risks
dsteinbarge
Answered Nov 13, 2011
im havin sum10 similar I think you should just ask her if she says no well she still your friend I wish it was dat simple wit me
912love
Answered Nov 14, 2011
seriously all you can do is take the risk, its a horrible feeling not actually knowing how someone feels towards you, let alone if they're the same sex as you.. you've gotta find yurself and be comfortable in exactly who you are as a person and the rest will come with it, course, I was scared of coming out the closet with my bestfriend, she was my everything aswell and she still is, and we've now been together for seven years, I found that I culdnt tell her I loved her and wanted to be with her and only her, until the day that I realised and accepted it myself. because yur saying yur straight and thats how you see yourself, yur not accepting yourself as anything different, the day you realise who you are and who you want to be is the day your figure out the rest, I like boys aswell, but theres only one girl in the world that stole my heart and shes the only girl that ever will.. find yourself.. and I promise, the rest will fall into place
KellyButler
Answered Jan 09, 2012
I feel that way kinda ecxept I'm in love with my boy BFF but we're so close... Almost too close that I'm too afraid to tell him
Dawngurl777
Answered Apr 13, 2013

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