About my girlfriend and me .Please tell me what do you think?

I was in love with one girl and we use to go out for more than a year. I love her very much. Our relationship went more than a year and we made a mind to shift together and want to live happily. we are working in same company. Last month she went on leave for one week. When she joined back she told me she has got a boy-friend and moved with him. It was shock for me. I love her very much. When I asked her what was wrong and why she this to me. She replyed she loves me now also and miss me lot. I have asked her to date and she said yes. but never turned up. This happened 5 times. Now I am lost what to do and what not. She say she love me and does not me me outside company? What should I do ? Can anybody tell me what I should do ? But I Love her very much and I am mad behind her.

Can someone reply this please
rahul00
Asked Nov 08, 2011
Edited Nov 18, 2011
Good luck. They say time heals all wounds. :-)
But all wounds that heal, will leave a scar. Depending on how bad it is engraved.
Yes correct. I try to avoid her but could not. Can you tell me the best way to get out
rahul00 Nov 10, 2011
The best way to get out is to let go. Don't hold on to the possibility that things will magically work out when she's made it clear that she's chosen someone else.
I understand that you love her, but do you trust her? My guess is probably not, and you can not be in a relationship with someone you do not trust. You also can not be in a relationship with someone who has SHOWN you that she does not want to be in a relationship with you. Pay attention to what she DOES, not what she SAYS. I think it is best for you to find someone who will treat you better than she has. I am sorry. I am sure this must hurt you very much.

I am very sorry to say that she has chosen to build a life without you. She is now with another man. I know it hurts now, but you can and will live without her. When you are with someone who loves you and who will not betray you this way, you will see that you can actually live BETTER without her.

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I'm not sure what else to say. A relationship with her appears impossible. She's betrayed your trust and started a life with another man. All you can do is move on and take care of yourself. There's no good answer for how to do that easily or make the pain go away faster.

If you can't physically get away from her because you work together or something like that, then you need to limit interactions with her and keep them completely professional.
skyDancer
Answered Nov 08, 2011
Edited Nov 18, 2011
Sounds like she is stringing you along mate, maybe as a backup plan.
Act like you couldn't care less, maybe she will get interested.
If not, move on mate.
BigRichard
Answered Nov 22, 2011

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