Why do men have to watch porn?

So my boyfriend and I have fought about him watching porn many times. I don't like him to watch it, but he doesn't see anything wrong with it. I don't like the fact that he likes to watch other naked women, especially because they are performing sexual acts. We're are very committed to each other, and very much in love, but this keeps coming up. So I've been looking for answers to this and all I get is that men watch porn, there is nothing you can do about it. I also hear a lot of, if you're unhappy with it you need to break up with him and find someone else. The thing is: ALL men watch porn, according to everything I've seen and heard. How am I supposed to ever be happy with this? Why do they have to watch it? I've asked some of my friends - who are also girls - and they say they hate it when their boyfriends watch porn, too. If it hurts us, why do they keep doing it?
babygurl075
Asked Nov 04, 2011
Men don't HAVE to watch porn... but I suspect the men who do watch porn watch it for many of the same reasons that some women watch porn.

It sounds like you want him to change for you. That usually doesn't work out that well. What if he wanted YOU to change into someone who didn't mind if her boyfriend watches porn?? There's no difference. Either way, the outlook probably isn't good if both people in a relationship can't accept the other.
skyDancer
Answered Nov 06, 2011
Edited Nov 06, 2011
not true, christian guys watch porn too. stop putting dumb answers!
freejol
Answered Nov 05, 2011
i know they do but if their relationship with God is real thell be able to try and stop for her and God. it aint a dumb answer.feel free to down rate me freejol.:|
@bobb1358, I strongly disagree with your first sentence here. I think it's up to each person to decide if their relationship with God, etc. is "real" based on their criteria. I rarely ever discuss religion with anyone because I get very annoyed when others try to tell someone how their spiritual lives should look.
sorry if I offended u just tryin to say wat I think. and I know its up to each person to tell if they have a relation ship with God. I dont talk about it either. (hey maby im rong I dont care if u tell me:) no hard feelings)ps. why do u put@before a name
also whats a criteria
criteria=a principle or standard by which something may be judged or decided : ex. the launch came too close to violating safety criteria.

yeah, totally no hard feelings. the @ was force of habit from twitter...
Guys watch porn because it's much better than staring at a blank wall while they're whacking off. :-)
Rob
Answered Nov 05, 2011
Edited Nov 05, 2011
not all men watch porn. I dont. u should find a nice christian guy. guys watch porn because it exites them. ur right about not liking it and wrong about there being no men who dont watch porn.
bobb1358
Answered Nov 04, 2011
something you need to understand is that while women have a gradual build of their sexual hormones peeking at the age of 30, men spike all the way up at 18 during a very confusing time in everyones life. quite often men become defined by these hormones since we all get cursed with them during our teenage years when we are making that transition into our own personality. I personally use porn to vent out these urges so I can think clearly about women and whether or not I like her or if its just lust. when I was married I learned that not only did I want sex more often than my wife, I didnt want to go through all the bs she wanted to go through each time. not to mention she wanted to be screwed in her way which would mean I would be bored 2 1/2 hours later when she was worn out. however, my wife didnt like me watching it at first either till she tried watching it with me with my hands on her. after that she insisted we watch them. hopefully some of this info has been useful.
lucifersama
Answered Nov 05, 2011
All men don't watch porn some do and some don't my bf doesn't watch porn he says the people in them are stupid for recording sex and men don't HAVE to watch it
Ruby_sapphire
Answered May 04, 2013
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annsexy
Answered Jun 27, 2018
Maybe he's watching it to have more knowledge about s*x. Don't get angry with him just because he's watching porn. Why don't you also watch with him. Support him no matter addiction he's doing. You may also try watching it on the best porn sites by http://bit.ly/2JMJfIx
acelen
Answered Jun 27, 2018

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