Is this me being stupid or is he just mean?

Me and this boy text and talk about going out so basically we are seeing each over. So last night we were texting and he stops texting me at 8.30 and I know he goes to sleep at 11 ( its his routine) At 11 I text him again saying good night then , and I expect a text in the morning but nothing. So I text him in the morning saying you going to talk to me today, and h didn't reply. so at 6 in the evening today I text him saying 'FINE if you don't want to talk'

his reply was: for **** sakes just cus I don't text u back once in a while you moan. I work 7 till 5 and when I get home im really tired, your always having ago at me and im getting sick of it!

you see I do have ago at him a few times because he doesn't text me much and he doesn't show any effort because he is shy and no confidence, but last time I had ago at him for this he rang me up to explain and we were fine after.

am I being stupid???

Yes

Yes. You're being very needy and demanding.

He has no obligation to be in constant communication with you every free, waking moment of his life. You aren't the center of his world, and you aren't supposed to be. You're acting in a way that shows that you are super needy and you're telling him that he's going to constantly be under your microscope and if he doesn't do what you want him to do when you want him to do it, then he's going to have to listen to you moan about it. You've giving him very good reasons to break up with you. Frankly, I would after this episode. No one wants to be aggravated.

Also, you should have more enriching and fulfilling things in your life going on so that you don't even him time to obsess over him like this.

If you learn these things, it might work out better with your next boyfriend.

Yes you are.

Honestly, if you try to talk to him that much that can get annoying. Everyone needs their alone time, and you have to understand this. Honestly if I were him I would have left by now. Constant communication like that leads to bad relationships in the future.

Very. Take time to get yourself together before you move on to ur nxt bf. Neediness will make you the crazy girl that guys avoid or only want long enough to get what they want. You don't want to be that girl.

sorry but yea

I think if its something that's happening repeatedly you might wanna talk to him. If it really is because of work or other obligations, maybe lay off a bit and ask him when would be a good time to text for a steady period. If it's a new relationship, you may feel more needy and worried when he doesn't talk when you want to or always give the reply you want. Just don't worry to much and if a problem comes along, talk to him calmly and fairly, not accusingly or condescendingly.