Should I end it with my girlfriend?

ummm im bi nnd I go with this gurl at my school . nobody really knows we date etcept my bestfrannd . me nnd my gf been dating for lik a month nnd 2 weeks . she's not openingly bi nnd neither am I . I want to be bi openingly with her . but the thing is she goes with sum guy . nnd im okaiie with it khuz nobodiie knoees we date . at school we act sorta lik a couple I guess nnd its kinda noticeable . many ppl think where jst jokin around but where not . I really love her . yu mite say a month nnd about 2 weeks is tu short tu love sumone. but me nnd her dated b4 well had a past nnd knwee each other for a while . wat shuld I do about this whole situation ?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Oct 16, 2011
talk to her ..ask her do she feel the same way about you and that you all are both welling to put work into your relationship to make it work and dont make the relationship about anyone else only about you two ..so you both shouldnt be in relationships with other ppl .How could you truly love someone if you are dating someone else at the same time? just talk to her (: good luck & much love
pookie16
Answered Oct 17, 2011
I think the answer to that lies in the answer to this question: Why are you willing to date someone who is cheating on you with someone else???

If you don't think you deserve better and/or you're fine accepting scraps, then what you do really doesn't matter.

If you do think you deserve better and aren't willing to settle for scraps of a person/relationship, then you'll have a conversation with her and ask her to make a choice. If she can't or won't, that IS her choice, and if you care about yourself, you'd walk away regardless of how much you may think you care for her.

NEVER love a partner more than you love yourself. It isn't romantic; it's self-loathing, disempowering, and self-destructive, and leads to misery.
skyDancer
Answered Oct 17, 2011
Edited Oct 17, 2011
If your serious you deserve to know whether she's serious or not not too.

I don't necessarily believe you should end it right way. She might be having some inner conflicts as well with her sexuality and not know what to do. If so it makes it that much harder because you both are having problems that tie into you having a healthy relationship. If you really want some sort of a future with her, you need to sit down and talk with her. Sometimes talking about these sort of things are uncomfortable, but a relationship is a partnership meaning you both have to put in work to make it go right.

Also don't think that just because people have suspicions about you or your girl mean you have to tell anybody about your sexuality. That's another topic, but only come out when your ready and to the people you feel comfortable with.

Hope all goes well (:
needanswersfast
Answered Oct 17, 2011
well imma talk tu her today about everything . frm how I feel nn her bf . nnd all daht stuff .

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