Am I insane?

so I like this older girl were both in highschool I'm a freshmen and she's a senior /: ! she's 5'8 I'm 5'2 /: how can I talk to this girl? I have no classes with her :( I only see her when I walk out of french class she's so beautiful though! I know some seniors my sister is a senior. But I guess my sister doesn't talk to her, like never o. o How can I like get to know this girl? do I have a chance? And yes I know she's bi sexual but I feel her leaning more into the girl side. We glance at eachother a little bit. Please help I really wanna get to know this girl if its possible , she seems different from what I see everyday :)

curls

Asked Oct 14, 2011

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You are not insane.

To find out if someone likes you, start a conversation with them about anything. If they are interested in you, they will continue the conversation and look for ways to get to know you better just like you are doing. If they aren't interested you'll get a quick answer and they'll move on. For example, "I really like the way you do your hair. How do you do that?" Then pay attention to the response.

Don't try between classes. Do it when both of you have time to talk.

Rob

Answered Oct 15, 2011

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But how? Should I bump into her? Or something?I get your example so if they put more detail and talk to you more than they like you?

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curls Oct 15, 2011

Bumping into her is fine. Suppose the situation was reversed. If she bumped into you or asked you about your cool shoes, wouldn't you talk to her? The only reason you wouldn't would be if you were not interested.

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Rob Oct 15, 2011

Well I got a idea! What if after french class I play a game with my friend its about asking people out anyone! Should I do that? Should I go up to her? And tell her my friend wants to go out with her (my friend is a girl) or would she think were immature? Or should I get a way of my friend like asking her out for me (doing the game) and then I'll be like noo all blushing . Should I do that? Tell me if its a bad or good idea? Thank you so much Rob :D

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curls Oct 15, 2011

I wouldn't get my friends involved. She might like your friend better than you. Tell her you're doing a survey, ask 2 or three lead up questions then ask her if she would go out with a girl. If she says yes then the next question is, "How about me?" :-)

If she says no. You say, "thanks."

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Rob Oct 15, 2011

Alright. But I'm not trying to to be mean or anything , but my friend isn't attractive..but is my plan creepy at all? Or will it make think or say dumb or immature freshmen?

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curls Oct 15, 2011

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ok, so one, that is so cute that you want to get to know her more. and I think u should give her a chance. go up to her and say hi, or if your to scared through something her way and go get it and say sorry. Or look for someone else. Maybe this is a crush. and your not insane, you like someone! there is nothing wrong with liking someone and if anyone else says differ, than screw them! Good Luck!

hippie425

Answered Nov 08, 2011

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I really liked your advice(throwing something at her way GENUISE!:D) but there's a problem she has a girlfriend now /-:

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curls Nov 11, 2011

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i was in ur spot a couple years ago and its not hard at all. if you know shes bi then try to start little conversations after u get out of french. start with a hi and go on from there. dont get scared just because shes older cuz age really doesnt make a difference at first everyone is nervous to meet someone new. just be yourself, yes I know easier said than done. or even if u help her with her books, or find her at lunch and try to hang out with her she will notice you.