I need friends but its impossible.

I have a number of friends,most of my friends are online,since only about 5 I can talk to on a reg.basis.The rest of my friends and a guy im so hooked onto,are so busy and the guy is trying his best only to focus on education. I'm tired of getting more online friends since I have no good friends at my school that are around when im feeling down or being pushed around.No one to help me at all.Im a very emotional person,"depressed" and suicidal.Most people think im stupid,out of style,i suck but none of them really know me,they haven't tried talking to me since I don't become interesting.Im easily hate-able since a large majority of people dislike/hate me.Its nearly impossible to get more friends either because im not in any after school clubs or activities or I don't live near anybody.My sister has been telling me i'll meet good friends in middle school but i've tried and i've been pushed out of a group at lunch so now im pretty much lonely since both groups I used to sit with have pushed me out.I cried over it,being a big baby since i've been left out a lot.And no one noticed.

So what do you think I should do about getting more caring,and hangout-able friends Like the ones most people tend to talk about or will I never be able to get some friends like that?

Well, when kids wanna fit in they sometimes confuse being more approachable with completely over-riding themselves just for popularity or appeal. don't change yourself for anyone but grab a little confidence and try to hang out with new people and kids that share similar interests as you.

If your school has clubs that interest you try joining them. Show your true colors and don't be too shy. Just because not everybody likes you or when someone has a bad word to say about you doesn't mean you should cry. Shake it off and get back up.

Confidence is key in this situation I think. It's also very attractive. Well to me at least ^ ^ I like people who hold there own and brush off the bad vibes.

Also, Pity is not a friend! I knew one girl who only got attention by acting like the broken soul that constantly needed mending by other peoples attention. Don't be that person; Be happy and start the party yourself if need be

Alots of the time the situation isnt as bad as you make it out to be. I used to be very shy in one of my classes but once I started cutting up and talking more everybody got warmed up to me, I got warmed up to them, and everytime I came in to class it was a familiar and happy place to be.

Do your best and God bless! :)

i think you should join more clubs and get to know more people. that way, if they're people maybe you don't know, then you can start fresh with a new friend. just be yourself and have confidence. believe me, confidence is huge when you're with people and trying to make new friends. if you act like you're so stupid and you hate yourself, people won't want to be friends with you. but if you act like you're top dog and have swag, then yeah, you're cool:) hope I helped and just remember, there's always silver lining beyond the storm clouds.

You shouldn't try to be somebody your not. Look for REAL friends not people who want you to change to fit in with them. You've got 5 real friends you should be happy :), you don't want to be surrounded by fake friends.

I was the same way my whole life, I had few friends in elementary and middle school and the one I had were black clothe wearing, sorta emo kids and we went to cOncerts. I got to high school and joined the wrestling team. I was 103 lbs my freshman year had no friends and never had a girlfriend. by my senior year I weighed 130lbs benchpressing 300 lbs, and went to state chapmionships. I made friends w people on the team, had girls all over me, plenty of friends, and thought I was the shit. Now I graduated and I've went right back to where I was a depressed kid with no wrestling to look forward to. I dont get it but now the only things I have to look forward to is watching movies and playing poker. I'm extremely suicidal...but my point is join the wrestling team and start taking supplements to get jacked. Ittle help trust me

look you sound lyk dis dude at my skool but he kinda deserves it hes real mean you should try to you knw be more talkative make some jokes I was new I did this dont be depressed be your self it always work