What does it mean if a girl says yes when you ask her to homecoming, but then she says no later?

I asked her to homecoming and she said yes. Apparently after that she went to chorus and she said that she was really confused about what happened but she said "sure" (I wasn't there). The next day she told me that she couldn't make it to homecoming at all and that she was really sorry since she knew it was very hard for me to ask her out in the first place.
drums247
Asked Oct 14, 2011
Edited Oct 16, 2011
Maybe she had a change of plans,or something important come up at night. maybe you should try to ask sometime you see her to get the real story from her.
Pikapillow
Answered Oct 14, 2011
If she changed her mind after she went home, that sounds like her parents could have some objections. Maybe something like an age difference between you and their daughter? I would talk to her in an understanding way and tell her you are really sorry she's not going. She may explain why.
Rob
Answered Oct 16, 2011
Edited Oct 17, 2011
We're both in the same grade though, and I believe we're both the same religion.
If she acts like she likes you but she's never dated before, or if you have green hair or just got out of juvie, those would be votes for the parents nixing it. Also saying she couldn't make it, "at all." sounds like she's not going with anybody.

If she has dated before, doesn't seem into you that much or is very popular, that points toward the possibility that she got a better offer. Regardless, only she knows the answer so the next step is to ask her.
Rob Oct 16, 2011
She hasn't dated before. So i'll ask her tomorrow. Thanks!

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