I didn't even really like him!

I dated a guy for probably like a month or so. I didn't really have strong feelings for him but he broke up with me and I kind of got my feelings hurt. What do you think about this?. I really thought I didn't like him. My friend abrii said that maybe I had feelings for him deep down but I really dont think so. But how does it explain geting hurt when he broke up wit me?? :(((
cady
Asked Aug 17, 2011
Like I said, I think that you have deep down feelings. And I have told you time and time again to not date somebody that you dont even have feelings for. If you didn't have feelings for him maybe you just got hurt because he broke up with you so you are probably thinking why he broke up with you and what's wrong with you. When nothing is actually wrong with you. But next time try not to date somebody you are not into. Just saying.
Abrii
Answered Aug 17, 2011
Not to argue with my good friend Abrii but my guess is what you're feeling is more rejection than anything else. If you had kicked him to the curb, you'd be OK with it. Make up with him then dump him and see if you don't feel better. :-)

Rob
Answered Aug 17, 2011
That's probably what it was.
cady Aug 18, 2011
1.ur friends with abrii 2.well I think u just kinda like him
Alexa
Answered Oct 11, 2011
You probably didn't have feelings deep down. It's just an ego thing. Thinking that someone didnt like you as much as you thought or experiencing what feels like someone not finding you attractive kind be hurtful even if there wasnt feelings there.

Theres this one guy I sat with at my lunch table. I definitely had no feelings towards him at all. To me he's unbearably annoying and unintelligent, but one day one of his friends ask "Would you go out with her?" (me) and he said "OH GOD! NEVER! no offense."

It made me very angry to be in a way rejected by someone I felt was inferior or beneath me. He was also very rude. So that may also be what your feeling. Don't take it seriously. Just get over it. (:
needanswersfast
Answered Oct 17, 2011

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