I want to go out with him! What do I do?

Ok, I have a friend who I have known and liked for about 4 years and I know he likes me too. We're both 13. We haven't seen each other for 2 years and I really miss him. A few days ago he messaged me on facebook saying he loved me and asked me out. I said yes. YAY! Great isn't it? But then it all went wrong because he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him. I know it sounds REALLY bad but I know he's not like that. So anyway, I said no and really told him off. He then said he was joking about everything. Does that include asking me out? I really want to go out with him and I miss him like crazy. I don't want to seem to eager, I just want him to realise that I still like him. Please help!

Contact him and tell him you would like to go out with him but joking or not, you want it clearly understood, the sex thing just ain't gonna happen. If he's willing to accept those terms fine. If he isn't, you could have misjudged his intentions.

I understand a lot of teenagers have negative feelings about their dates associating with their parents but it's a very valuable to have the guy meet your parents and visit you at home. If he's not willing to do that, he has a different idea about what's going on than you do.

Most guys at a younger age are like that , perverted and in-the-gutter-minds, because they haven't matured soooo much yet . At this point I would reccomend you just trying to get closer to him . I don't believe that you can love someone so quick , and he might've been kidding about that , but ya never know . He could've just been saying that because you told him off and he didnt want to upset you .
I think the guy could care about you , just get to know him a little better , and then make you're decision based on your morales what you should do .
Hope this helps! (: