Help me

ok so im getting married in a couple of weeks from now and I want everthing to be perfect ...so when me and my husband get ready to have sex I want to be fresh and clean "down there" ok so I bought a summer eves douche and I dont know how to use I looked at the instructions but I still dont understand how it works as you can see its my first time trying to douche...so I squeezed the the bottle but nothing came out of the nozzle I unscrewed the nozzle a little then squeezed again nothing came out someone please help me.... desperate measures

If you're squeezing a bottle an nothing comes out, unscrew the top and see if there is a seal over the contents. Most products seal the contents to make sure they don't get contaminated between production and the customer. If there's a seal there, remove it, replace the top and try again.

The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists suggests women never douche for any reason. It causes irritation and kills beneficial bacteria. Here's more info: http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/douching.cfm

As for cleanliness, there's ole fashioned soap and water. You can go for waxing to remove some/all hair to help with sweatiness if you're concerned about that... but again, ole fashioned soap and water is fine if culturally you prefer your natural hair. Try to relax. There's some nice pheromones being released in that area that actually heighten arousal for many guys, so don't worry about the natural sachet. That sweaty sex smell is usually a big turn on.

If you are concerned about any odor that you think is particularly strong, see a doctor as that could be a sign of infection.... but it sounds like it's nerves.

Relax, soap up, enjoy... :-)