I'm sorry you're experiencing this. It must be terrible to be betrayed by family... especially when you did such a *monumentally* kind thing for her.
The statute of limitations on debts --- the time allotted to legally enforce the debt --- begins when the contract is signed. Most states recognize a 4-6 year SOL on debts. The SOL is renewed with a partial payment or a written promise to pay. If you have more recent proof of either of these, AND the document that proves the debt existed, you may have legal recourse. (Is the original attorney refusing to locate documents, or refusing to locate documents without pay? Ask his local bar association what you can do to compel him.) You'd need an attorney to proceed. IF you have standing to sue, the amount exceeds small claims court.
I say this from personal experience: NEVER loan money that you ever want to get back or may need in the future. When you make a loan, treat it in your mind like a gift.
I suspect the attorney's response was based on the realization that the case isn't going anywhere because of the SOL. If she/he wants to persue the issue in the face of that formidable obstacle, the records can easily be obtained with a subpoena duces tecum.
Yeah, without a recent, provable renewal of the SOL there's no case and no point in doing anything else.
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