How long should I wait?

okay so , in one of my previous questions , I mentioned that I had a bouyfriend . well I ALSO commented that he cheated on me . now , my question is , how long should I wait until I can ask questions about our relationship ? I mean I want to know if some things that he said were actually true , and how long he was with the other girl . sooo , yes , how lond should I wait ?

Understand that when you start asking questions like that, sometimes you get answers you don't want to hear. So, ask when you can deal with hearing things that will upset you and still be able to keep your cool.

It's also important to think about WHY you want to ask these questions...