Was this sudden reaction a normal?

In a discussion, this man who is friends with two women in the room, had the option of choosing one or the other to respond to his question after they both held up their hands. he chooses to call on the one he knows better. but he knew the other lady first. and for some reason they don’t communicate as much. after he picked his closer friend to answer, he just looked uneasy and took a big step backwards away from the podium. then a few seconds later, he stands back in his position. Why would he react that way after choosing his closer friend?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Jun 29, 2011
I dk maybe he likes men who nows thoe
Why ask why? Sounds like an over-analysis to me as a total outsider...
Stepping back from the podium is a gesture to indicate someone else has the floor. I suppose it's possible he could have been trying to put some space between himself and the lady that didn't get selected in case she was accurate at tossing a shoe.

What's not possible though is that he stepped back to make room for an inbound spaceship to land. When that happens, it's always preceded by a "Dee-Daa...Dee-Daa" sound. :-)



Rob
Answered Jun 29, 2011
Just guessin'--were you one of those ladies? He sounds fine, like what he did was normal. I agree with Rob.

Look, I am REALLY not trying to be mean here, but you are starting to sound a little stalker-ish. I would hate to be this guy. It sounds like u watch every moves he makes. Either you are obsessed with him, or there are pieces of this puzzle that you aren't sharing that might help this make some sense.

I'm with skyD. this sounds really off, but I can't put my finger on why. Or maybe he might just be a little weird. I'm used to working with scientists, and most of them are "normal" but lack social skills. Maybe he's just awkward. But I'm really more concerned about you.

I might hear a spaceship landing.
BrightStar
Answered Jun 30, 2011
Sorry...but I feel like laughing...Its interesting how easy the word stalker can get thrown around. Of course there are things going on that I cannot mention here. But there has been very legitimate series of behavior from this guy. Don't assume my position in this scenario. I am just asking a question. Don't try to determine any wrong intentions. Its either and opinion can be given or not. As simple as this may seem to you, being in the situation would make a little more sense I guess. But its not normal to have a quick reaction to something that is obviously cause for guilt. anyway, the majority has not been told. But try to answer if you can. Otherwise, leave it.
bluburd Jun 30, 2011
Bluburd, I really wish I could help you, but I feel just as lost as BrightStar. I can respect your privacy and understand that you may not want to compose a 1000-page tome explaining the backstory. It's just that, for me, there just isn't enough context to make head or tails of it to give you a helpful answer to what ever the underlying issue is. Maybe talk to someone who knows you both or at least someone who witnesses the strangeness and can pick up on visual cues. I really do wish I could be more helpful to you...

I think the problem we're having is with, "obviously cause for guilt." Nothing in what you''ve written in your three questions is anywhere close to obvious nor do they demonstrate any reason for anyone to feel guilty. If you clear that up, you may get some helpful answers.

Rob Jul 01, 2011

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