Just guessin'--were you one of those ladies? He sounds fine, like what he did was normal. I agree with Rob.
Look, I am REALLY not trying to be mean here, but you are starting to sound a little stalker-ish. I would hate to be this guy. It sounds like u watch every moves he makes. Either you are obsessed with him, or there are pieces of this puzzle that you aren't sharing that might help this make some sense.
I'm with skyD. this sounds really off, but I can't put my finger on why. Or maybe he might just be a little weird. I'm used to working with scientists, and most of them are "normal" but lack social skills. Maybe he's just awkward. But I'm really more concerned about you.
I might hear a spaceship landing.
Sorry...but I feel like laughing...Its interesting how easy the word stalker can get thrown around. Of course there are things going on that I cannot mention here. But there has been very legitimate series of behavior from this guy. Don't assume my position in this scenario. I am just asking a question. Don't try to determine any wrong intentions. Its either and opinion can be given or not. As simple as this may seem to you, being in the situation would make a little more sense I guess. But its not normal to have a quick reaction to something that is obviously cause for guilt. anyway, the majority has not been told. But try to answer if you can. Otherwise, leave it.
Bluburd, I really wish I could help you, but I feel just as lost as BrightStar. I can respect your privacy and understand that you may not want to compose a 1000-page tome explaining the backstory. It's just that, for me, there just isn't enough context to make head or tails of it to give you a helpful answer to what ever the underlying issue is. Maybe talk to someone who knows you both or at least someone who witnesses the strangeness and can pick up on visual cues. I really do wish I could be more helpful to you...
I think the problem we're having is with, "obviously cause for guilt." Nothing in what you''ve written in your three questions is anywhere close to obvious nor do they demonstrate any reason for anyone to feel guilty. If you clear that up, you may get some helpful answers.