Im 14 and always thinkn sex help

ok well ever since I was (well I donno I was so younge to remember I know I was bout 5 and I known bout sex most likey younger) I was raped at the age of 3 I beleave (cuz I couldnt talk) and stoped when I was 7 (cuz I could talk) but I think bout sex all the time im still kinder a virgin (he was doing me from the behind but I donno if he ever did do it the other way) but the thing is every single day I think bout sex not a day goes past and I masturbate (was doing that ever since I was bout 5) so yeah I kinder really need help I want to stop but I cant help it I dnt wanter have sex but I think of it everyday help plz I dont wanter

It could be that the horrible experience you had as a child makes you more concerned about your thoughts than those of us who haven't had those experiences. Thinking about sex and masturbation are normal for a 14 year old unless they become an obsession. If it affects your ability to function in a normal way or it is causing you to do things that are beyond the typical behavior for someone your age, you should seek some form of counseling.

That might not be a bad idea either way considering what you've experienced, especially if you feel there is some connection between then and now. Don't put a burden on yourself over the past. There is nothing in what happened to you that could vaguely be considered your fault.

Honey, I can't even count the number of times I think about sex in a day! It's totally normal to think about it; it's only a problem if it interferes with your ability to function throughout the day or if you find yourself willing to disrespect others or yourself to get it.

I agree with Rob. You did nothing to cause what you experienced. If it's throwing off how you're developing and thinking of yourself, then do talk to someone. It's better to deal with issues like this sooner rather than later in life after we've made years of mistakes in reaction to trauma.

The sex thoughts and the self-pleasure sound normal for someone with 14yo hormones. I'mnot qualified to comment on the rest, so maybe talk to someone who is. Sounds like it's still affecting you (... that sounds normal too. that's major.)

i agree with rob, I think it has something to do with ur past...and its okay b/c it is normal around ur age..all the best

yer im ur age and its normal for them toghts im a boy and tink of that I try to over come it but some time carnt so have to plesure my self I think u have to plesure ur self than see what happens and how u feel :)