I Have a Boyfriend ,and now a new girlfriend ! I Care for them both , but cheating is wrong :(

I Havee this boyfriend of almosy a year now(im 14)he's(16), I like him alot but I dont know, its still not love he loves me and I know he means it but I dont know how to put it, I dont feel the same way he does , It kills me to know I would hurt him, thats the last thing I want to do.My new girlfriend for a few days now, she's amazing and my first GIRL friend. She cute, funny .smart and I want to be with her and know her more inside and out, Shes juust perfect. I dont see it as cheating I see it as experimenting, Idont know I like her alot thou, what should I do ?

i thinnk that even though u dnt want to hurt it might be best to let him go, u shouldnt drag something that isnt even there...and yes I think u should be honest with them...

You have to be honest with everybody involved including yourself.

So, if your boyfriend had a boyfriend would he just be experimenting? Just to make this really clear... if he's expecting you to only be going out with him, and you're with *anyone* one else... yes, it's cheating, and lying, and you need to resolve the situation quickly to minimize damage.

Maybe you didn't realize this is what's going on, but it sounds like you've been stringing him along so that you don't have to be alone. That's selfish and unkind. When you no longer have feelings for someone, you should end things so they can move on to someone who can reciprocate.

You should break up with hum gently, and not flaunt her in front of his face after you do.