I hate my dad .

He's always been very strict but I dont think thats an excuse. Ok soo a few days ago wehad to fumigate the house and before he went to work, he told us to empty the things from the shelves and cabinets ect. so we put all the stuff in the garage. it took about 4 hours to do it. when he came home he started yelling at me, my mom, and my siblings and telling us that we're stupid for putting the stuff in the garage (this was at like 10 pm) then he made us put everything back in the house while he watched. I think hes an asshole. but its not just what he does to my brothers and sisters. for over a decade my mom has had to put up with my dad always telling her that everything bad that happens is her fault and that she doesnt deserve to live and that shes no raising us right. shes never done anything to him but he still constantly yells at her everyday, and on top of that hes having sex with other women and I kno this cuz he tells me and he says he has another family too. also a few months ago me and my gf broke up and (my dad didnt kno then that I was bi) he saw me crying in the car. so he decided to take my phone away, I still dont have it, and he took me out of school. hes always telling me that he hates me and that god hates me. I wanna kno if I should tell anyone ? and if so, who do I tell?

If you have adults in your family that are willing to take you in, talk to them. If not, go to the local social services office and explain your situation to them. They will go over your options with you.

What this says loud and clear is that you should do your absolute best at your schoolwork. You will not have the luxury of living at home while you make the transition from being a dependant to a self-supporting adult like most young people have. Learn every skill you can before that time comes.

You poor thing!! Im so sorry that your dad is this big of a jerk. I would call someone definately! You cant let him keep treating your family like this. Call the cops or something because he is definitely a sick man with no heart! I hope you guys will be ok and not be harmed by this mad man anymore.

Once again, Rob is correct. Start by trying to find a responsible and caring adult in your own family because foster care sucks. Otherwise try DSS, because the people that work there do so because they like and care about people in your situation and are trained professionals who can help.

well first of all God loves u soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much.

First of all, How OLD are you? if you are 18, depending on what state you live in you can move out. I did when I was 18. Your MOM should be the one to LEAVE him and take you and your brother with her if your dad is not treating your family right. Being Bi is YOUR choice. GOD DOES NOT HATE YOU!!! God LOVES YOU! If you tell anyone you should tell DCFC(Department of children and family services) Of course thats up to you. BUT its your MOMS job to protect you. If DCFS gets involved then they will take you out of the home and do an investigation. THey will more likly place you with a family member or in a foster home until the investigation is over with. Theres a good chance you could be placed back into thew home (thats why some kids end up dead). OUR legal system is VERY messed up!!!! The judge will decide if it is safe for you to go back into the home afterr the investigation. More than 90% of the time you will be placed back into your home. (social Worker told me) It Happened to me 3 times. It's just a run around game, thats all! But like I said its totaly up to you!!
OF COURSE like I said, Your MOM has to be willing to move out and take you with her. BY The Way: Taking your kids out of school is agenst the law in ANY state. I WiSH you the BEst of luck,
Im 18 years old now and I moved out. YOUR DAD will get PAyback for treating your family that way TRUST ME!!!
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READ MOM HELP Part 1 and DAD help if you want to!!