What's the best kind of lotion for drying, menopausal skin?

58 year old Black woman with drying skin would like to know what type of ingredients can I look for in a holistic lotion that would help moisturize and decrease wrinkles.

Instead of taking a shower, use the bathtub and put a couple cap fulls of mineral oil or baby oil in the water (baby oil is mineral oil with perfume added). When you get out, don't squeege the water off with the towel, pat it dry.

If the only facility you have is a shower, while you're still wet and before you get out of the shower, rub petrolium jelly on the wet skin and then do the pat-down with a towel afterwards.