Not feeling right about this.

Hey guys. This is to a question, and for an apology. First of all, I kinda want to say sorry for not being on here as often. I try but I get busy alot now with football. I don't know if i'm that much help around here but hey, everybody has their own part.

Second, i'm having girl problems again. Sorta. Me and my most recent girlfriend, broke up two days ago. We were fighting too much and it made me lose interest. Last Saturday, I met a new girl and she turned out to be everything I wanted. I'm also everything she wanted. We've never met in person but we met online and I have a picture of her so I know what she looks like.

I have the feeling of a player right now and I don't really like it. I mean, I broke up with my ex two days ago. And now, i'm planning on asking out another girl this Saturday. Is it too soon to be asking her out? Is it too soon to be dating again? This Saturday might be the only time, in a long time where we can see each other. The next time I will see her is after I get my license. It is also the first. I don't know where you guys could help but please. So any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.

Nah you're not a player. The way I look at it is that you're young and discovering what you like in a woman. Besides you're 14 it's really not that surprising that you are dating so much.

As for meeting the girl online, I would be a little careful about that. It's very easy to fake a picture of yourself. Maybe see if she could Skype you some time so you could see if she really looks like she does in the picture.

I wouldn't say it's to soon to ask the new girl out. Just spend the first few days or weeks getting to know her before you two go into anything physical, or ,if you two are into it, exchanging erotic pictures.

Hope this helps. :-)

I agree. You're not a player.

From what you've said on here before about your relationship with your ex, it seems like it may have been over a while ago. Maybe it just took time to let go and be sure? That happens. I wouldn't feel bad about it.

I'd echo the caution about the online thing. A video Skype chat is a good idea.

Yes, go slow on the physical... But don't do the erotic pics since you're under 18. It's kiddie porn, even though it's you and you consent. There have been cases of kids getting prosecuted for that.