How to help her?

My friend likes this boy so much she crys over him and he is being a real b!tch to her unlike last year and I can't give her advice please help me help her PLEEEEEEEEEEASE!!!!
paigerox808
Asked May 21, 2011
The problem is your friends expectations. If you expect a certain behavior from another human being you will most often be disappointed. You can't make someone else be what you want them to be. You have to accept them for who they are, good and bad then decide whether the good outweighs the bad enough to continue the relationship.

Everybody must have standards for what they are and are not willing to tolerate. And, for any relationship to work the feelings have to be mutual.

Help your friend get over her disappointment and make sure she learns to set her expectations on the boys actual behavior, not on what she wants it to be.

Rob
Answered May 21, 2011
Edited May 21, 2011
thanx rob u have the best advice
Since you're saying that this guy treats her like a bitch, then I don't think that he's worth her time. He has to meet her expectations but can't do anything wrong. Like treating her like this. Tell her to move on and find someone else. There are a ton of fish in the sea. You just gotta look for the right one.
mofoandtheho
Answered May 21, 2011
Maybe you should try to find her someone who she will like twice as much. You being her friend should know wwhat she likes. So now just go find someone who isn't a "b" and someon that she will like.
Abrii
Answered May 26, 2011
Good idea.
thank you
Abrii Jun 03, 2011
She should try to think about why she really likes this guy and if she cant think of any good reasons then she should move on. He sounds like a waste of her time anyway and she probably deserves much better.
manatees46607
Answered Jun 03, 2011
alrightyy . unless this kid changes his attitude , she needs to build a bridge and get over it . maybe she's in love with this vision of him that she still thinks is somewhere deep DEEP down inside of him , but if there's no hope for that version of him to come out of its shell , then I really think she needs to move on . the question is if she even notices that the dude acts like a jerk to her . because she might not want to except it if again she's in love with that version of him . maybe it'll take a girls' night out to refresh her mind , go shopping and hopefully get some sense into her ! (:
loveya
Answered Jul 22, 2011

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