Why are guys mean to you?

Why do guys espicalley in grade 7 be nice to you one day then the rest mean. Then denie being mean or ignoring you liek this guy I like did.

I was being stupid around him I have no idea why but yeh anyways I put choclate on his face and he wet me with a waterbottle. Then he snuck up behind me and I screamed and he laughed and said why did yo udo that? I said cause you have been ignoring me. He said no I havent. I said yeh and he walked of. He used to be so nice and used to stare at me make me laugh and always be nice never mean. Now idk who he is. On day he's nicet he next mean is this normal for boys that age?
shaza07498
Asked May 08, 2011
Could you possibly learn to speak properly? I am sure I am not the only one who had trouble understanding that.
-_- whats that suppose to mean
-_- I can and so could rob
same as sexy
Very normal. When they're with their male friends they try to act tough and when alone around you they revert to a nice guy. Boys that age are trying to prove they're more grown up than they really are. What that behavior is really telling you is that they're not there yet.
Rob
Answered May 08, 2011
That their not the person they act they are or ... ??
Young people's behavior is controlled more by emotion than logic. In fact, maturity is gaining the ability to control your behavior by logic rather than emotion. I would say, once they get beyond the relative age where we see young sheep butting heads, they will become more like the nice guy. Once they learn there is always a bigger and tougher ram in the flock, they will turn to the nice guy approach and many will even be enjoyable to spend time with. :-)
Rob May 08, 2011
Thx for the advice
Boys are just trying to find out who they really are at that age. They try to be two different people in a way. 1. With his friends 2. With you I hope this sorta helps.
manatees46607
Answered May 23, 2011
yeh thx:)
i dont know if it really helps you but your welcome! :)

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