Why dont I desire my husband like I used to?

He is a great man, he has always been good to me. We laugh talk and have a great relationship. He desires me and I like to be around him, touch,kiss him ect, but I just dont want sex. I pretend like I do because I love him and dont want to hurt him He has not changed in any way. I dont understand it! I am not cheating and have no desire to. What is wrong?

It's normal for everybody to think about sex. If you have sexual fantasies but don't want to do it with your husband, consider these possibilities:

You don't feel attractive any more?
You've done it the same way for so long, it's boring?
Subconcious fear of pregnancy?
The kids are old enough now and they might hear?

If you just don't have any sexual thoughts at all, you might consider talking to your doctor. Whether or not it's something to worry about could depend on your age.

That is actually very common in marriages, maybe you just are tired of the same thing. Try something different.

i agrree with them both, maybe change ios needed...n its perfectly normal...idk, but cerrtain meds also prevent frm that kinna joy...