Why dont I desire my husband like I used to?

He is a great man, he has always been good to me. We laugh talk and have a great relationship. He desires me and I like to be around him, touch,kiss him ect, but I just dont want sex. I pretend like I do because I love him and dont want to hurt him He has not changed in any way. I dont understand it! I am not cheating and have no desire to. What is wrong?
Asked Apr 26, 2011
Edited Apr 26, 2011
It's normal for everybody to think about sex. If you have sexual fantasies but don't want to do it with your husband, consider these possibilities:

You don't feel attractive any more?
You've done it the same way for so long, it's boring?
Subconcious fear of pregnancy?
The kids are old enough now and they might hear?

If you just don't have any sexual thoughts at all, you might consider talking to your doctor. Whether or not it's something to worry about could depend on your age.

Answered Apr 26, 2011
Edited Apr 26, 2011
That is actually very common in marriages, maybe you just are tired of the same thing. Try something different.
Answered Apr 28, 2011
i agrree with them both, maybe change ios needed...n its perfectly normal...idk, but cerrtain meds also prevent frm that kinna joy...
Answered May 31, 2011
Is his penis kinda gross? Because lots of guys need help with skin texture and hygiene down there. If this is the case, get him to use a penis health creme once a day. These are made to improve the look, feel and function of the penis and work very well. I've been using one for a while now and it has really helped my relationship. Hope this helps and good luck.
Answered Feb 01, 2017

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