Why is he not texting me back after the first sex, I have been seeing him for 2 months :(

I've been texting and getting with this guy for 2 months now and he's always been really nice. he's normally a player but put a lot of effort into me. he took me out for a meal last night and because it felt right I finally had sex with him after making him wait. he was a bit distant afterwards...I texted him today saying thanks for last night because I wanted him to know how I felt, I had a good time and he hasn't texted back yet. what could it mean? did he really make all that effort just for sex? I'm 21 years old btw.

It's a little early to make that assumption, there may be a reason but you should leave the next contact up to him. That will provide your answer.

mmm, hard to know, but whatever you do, don't overreact, re-text, or start asking him what is going on. Just wait for now. For all we know, his grandfather just died, I mean, we just don't know what is going on.

yes he put all that effert in for sex. Guys see women as a conquest or challenge. he did what he had to do to get what he wanted. In the future pay attention to your instincts, which told you he was not to be trusted as he has the rep of being a "player". He got that rep becuase he knows what to say and do to get what he wants. My husband told me it is a game for them, and it is not till a man decides in his mind he is ready for a real relationship that he will get into one, you cant "change their mind". Also, guys in your age group are mostly NOT looking to settle down.There are alot of good guys out there but in order to spare yourself some heartache, trust, trust trust your instincts, believe what he is telling you (you cant change him), and take your time it is not a race, and actions speak louder than words ---if he really care about you, you will know it by his actions, not his words

o m g!maybe becase he dont like how you do it....but is not hem is you....if you was a girl dat do things think about them befor you do it...this all not be going on wit you!!dats why somne girl have to know how to say NO when the time come!!!make them think dat you dont care about that even if you do.....and maybe if u see hem let hem know wat game is he playing wit you.....and tell hem wat you have to say....and then you go on wit you life or something.......and am srry but I dont think dat he care or love you LIKE he said he do....sometime you have to think about wat u r doing...........think about that a lil more...........

give em time to relax u no bt if he dnt txt bak 4 like a week dats wen sumthin wrong,i didnt txt my gf wen I had sex wit her for lik 2 weeks cuz I wuldve been embareesed if sum1 found out an it got out bt yall grown lol