My wife called her ex-boyfriend, I told her why she called him she got nervous and couldnt answer me

my wife and I been married for 4 years she called her exboyfriend one day, I told her why she called him? she said I never going to call him again. few days ago while I was away from home she called him, I sow on the phone-bill. this time she told me she called him to tell him not to call me anymore, still I am not happy with her answer. he lives same area like us and he works in a office where she goes for importent things sometimes. she telling me he is her temporery case-worker. I told her to change. can I trust her plz help me? I am confused.

You can't build a fence around your wife to control who she talks to. Her next case worker could be more attractive to her than her ex so what do you do then?

The answer is to examine your relationship with your wife and try to determine why you're so concerned about her talking to other men. It sounds more like an issue of insecurity on your part. Your marriage will work a lot better if you develop a strong enough bond between you that you don't have to worry about her talking to anybody.

No, you can't trust her. If she is contacting her ex, she still clearly likes him. This is disrespectful to you and your marriage. You should think about ending the marriage because this is kinda a form of cheating. Believe it or not this won't get better. I totally disagree with the guy that said you are being insecure. It has noting to do with insecurity its about having respect for your spouse. Tell her to go back to her ex-boyfriend. You deserve better. If you were to contact your ex-girlfriend or female friend in general she would be pissed off as well. She wouldn't approve of you talking to any female that was your ex. She would think that you still liked her and that you were cheating on her. Trust me. Tell her to stop or divorce her. You don't need this.