I think i'm clueless. help.

i told a girl I liked her. and she told me that it's okay. and since I am unsure whether she likes me back, I added that if it's not mutual then it's fine, because i've done my part in telling her that I liked her. then she was like 'okay'. so I told her 'i guess this will slide'. then after a couple of days, she asked me questions like when did I start liking her and stuff and does anyone knows. which I answered honestly. everything went out like normal after. we chat and talked about things but never bringing up this subject. it went on for awhile. but one day she brought up the subject and admitted she liked me too. but the thing is, I am unsure whether if she wants to go on with it or she's just telling me (because I think she actually have someone else right now). she did say that if my feelings are gone then it's alright. so, right now i'm confused on what should I do. and yes, I still like her a lot. and today she asked me 'what are we?' am I the clueless one? what should I do?
plainconfusing
Asked Apr 07, 2011
"What are we?" usually means, "So are we dating or what?"... which usually means "I'm receptive. Make your move." Go for it. Tell her what you would like to see happen, and see where it goes.
skyDancer
Answered Apr 07, 2011
Edited Apr 07, 2011
the telling part scares the hell out of me. but we're texting everyday now. just that we're still hanging. meaning the question 'what are we' still remains unanswered. *sigh* and even though I said 'it'll slide', oh well it never did, not even a little.
well if she said it's ok that you liked her then clearly it doesn't bother her that you like her, infact bet she were quite flattered! Sounds like at first she were just curious about why you liked her and stuff, so she just wanted to know as you probs would if it were other way round. Well sounds like she feels something for you I mean why else would she say she liked you. Maybe you both spending time together and chatting together made her realise she kinda likes you too, I think the fact you admitted to liking her plays a big part. If you never said that then maybe she wouldnt have admitted her feelings. In regards to her question say to her ,well what do you want us to be? Ask her if she actually feels something for you. Thing is you really like her, dont let her go. Just make sure she really does like you and not just playing with you feelings as you dont want to get hurt
anonymoususer
Answered Apr 07, 2011
we're texting everyday now. and she replies unlike she normally would. which is a good thing, no? but we're still hanging. I don't know where are we actually. and the thing is..everyday, i'm actually just scared that the last sentence u said might just come true.
thanks for replying though. it means a lot :)
say to her where do you think we are then? see what she says - don't let her go.
You should ask her out! Man you have the guts to do that !? Goodjob lol :D
curls
Answered Apr 08, 2011
it took a lot of courage. I cannot even believe I even did it. lol.
I bet it did ! I can't even do that lol :D
curls Apr 10, 2011

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