I am a girl and bi, but I love her so much and she has a boyfriend also she's moved class now :(

I am a girl, 13 and really think i'm in love with this amazingly beautiful girl. The thing is she has a boyfriend and he only likes her because he thinks she's fit. I know she deserves more, but I try to stay supportive for them. The other thing is it seems as if she flirts with me alot and I can't tell if she is bi or not (she always hugs me and says "I love you" ,but is that just being friendly?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Apr 07, 2011
I don't think you have enough information to form an opinion one way or the other. Different people use the word love in different ways. Some say it to about anybody they're fond of while others are very carful who they tell they love them.

Try to get her in a general conversation about girls dating girls and listen carefully to her opinion. Try a line like, "I saw two girls kissing on TV. Could you kiss another girl?" Be ready to respond if she asks, "What about you?"

Rob
Answered Apr 07, 2011
Yea thing is friends do hug and say love you. Like because you like her you will be reading into things more then a friend way. Things is when you like a friend it can be difficult to judge how people mean things. For instance saying I love you can be interpreted in different ways. If she has a boyfriend maybe she is being friendly. Then again if she is flirting with you... it could mean more. You need to try and find out as difficult as it may be. Try spend more time with her and flirt back see how things go, then if you feel things are still the same then you need to maybe ask her a question about 2 girls or something to indicate if she likes girls and see how she re acts
anonymoususer
Answered Apr 07, 2011
Edited Apr 07, 2011
exactly the same im thirteen to, she also tells me she loves me, but sometimes she kisses the top of my head or my forhead, and im not sure how to inturpret that, and I think im in love, but the problem is shes only in one of my classes, is popular and her friends scare me, and she has a boy friend. we had almost all the same classes together last year, and we got really close, what do I do
ashley987
Answered Oct 11, 2012

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