Girl likes girl

thanks Rob - bit hard to just do a random survey like that though, maybe if were younger but I'm like 21 so kinda need to deal with it in a different way. Plus she will think I'm weird if I turned round and did a survey haha :)

It would take a playful sense of humor and a big smile. What's scary about asking sensitive questions is when they're done in a stiff and serious manner. If you do it with a big smile and a lot of confidence you can get an answer to about anything without all of the negatives if it doesn't fly, like "Hey babe, you sure are cute. If I was going to turn bi it would surely be with someone like you."

yea I guess your right thank you - just hard living so far a part so would probs end up being over text anyway, plus I wouldnt dare do it to her face. It's so hard though Rob cos the fact were best friends and cos of how she is with me, I dont know what way she means stuff. I really wish I could ask her straight and be like did what just happen mean anything to you...

I understand what you're saying but you can never improve your position without taking some kind of risk. The key is to understand the risks and take the ones that offer the best chance of getting where you want to go.

Nothing ventured...Nothing gained.

Your right!! I think I just need to man up and just say something. Think I might approach it in the way of something like 'you know what happened the other week, do you regret it?' Last time we spoke aboout it she said no. If she says no again I could then say well did it mean anything to you..... ???

Hmm I think I would find it hard to come out with that. We have done stuff - but don't know if it means anything to her or how she feels about me. Were best friends so it's hard to gage if she means stuff in a friend way or more....

bit of a hard situation as were best friends - we have done stuff. Thing is now I cant tell how she means stuff... meaning like in a mate way or more

we don't see each other that much so bit hard. I just need to man up really. The way she has been with me though it's just hard to tell how she feels and I don't want to read into this all wrong. If I knew she liked me I would tell her my feelings in a flash

Awww sounds like you really like her, I totally understand you. I hope everything goes okay goodluck!