6 years w/ my boyfriend, when I met him he said he was seperated fr. wife of 23yrs, and in process of divorce. To this day no divorce. He says its all financial reasons, and he doesnt want to loose his retirement, blah, blah, in the mean time he still pays her car, medical and occasional mtg. we live to gether but in his house. he wants me to pay 1/2 of bills but his house is quite large and his family always comming over I cannot afford to pay the high propane and electric bills while they sit at my house and rack up $ im at work. anywayz...... we also dont have sex....... when I work 24 hr shifts and come home I look at his internet history and its all porn videos nonstop........ but yet he never touches me, this has been going on for a longggggg time, and no im not ugly! he tells me "theres more to a relationship than sex"kkkkkkkk,? He is financial set, doing very well, I on the other hand am back in school, doing well, but a job that barely pays my car, ins, and minor cc bills. I have presented to him should we break up, what is going on? he doesnt want to?! thats what he says, but his actions are so different. he doesnt need me, but he wont let me go...... once upon a time he would kiss and hug me while we cooked dinner together, now one of us will cook we will eat and hell go to bed. oh wait hes very anal and scheduled, so I do get a kiss oh the forehead when he leaves for work, and a kiss when he gets home. I think I forgot how to passioniatly kiss,,seriously I try to remember that I need to stay focus and get my degree, but its exhausting wondering what is going on. I have expressed that I would like A piece of jewelry, never, never in the 6 yrs have I recvd such a gift fr. him. Ill send him emails, not often, just saying im thinking of him, n love him....... never responsed. says he is really busy @ work. Mind you he doesnt talk to me when he gets home, he gets on the phone w/ family and goes into the garage, but if I decide to go w/ girlfriends its an ordeal......... never have I been so confused. Twice now hes caught me masterbating, and just replys "sorry, didnt me to interrupt!!!!!!!!Latley I ve been telling him, if you want to break up its fine, I need love and companionship just a little, I hate being smothered, but this is neglect. Oh and for the 3rd time hes helped his wife move........ mind you shes the mother of his daughter, but shes 24yrs old and lives in the city! give it to me straight!
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Asked Mar 28, 2011
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