My boyfriend wants anal sex and I dont want to! What should I do?

Im 18 and my boyfriend is 22, we have been going together for about a year now. My boyfriend convinced me to try anal sex as he said it would make us closer, I hated it as it hurt like hell and I didnt feel any pleasure at all! My boyfriend wants to do it again but I dont! I love him so much and want to make him happy, just not like that. Im afraid I will lose him if I say no, what should I do?
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Asked Mar 06, 2011
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The things that make relationships work are things that make both of you happy, not just one of you. Tell him how you feel about it. If the only bond that's holding you and your boyfriend together is anal sex, you're relationship is in trouble already.
Rob
Rob
Answered Mar 07, 2011
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Get a big black strap on dildo, and a pot of lube, and say that you're game, if he is.
Slerp
Slerp
Answered Mar 18, 2011
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This has to be the most hilarious answer ever.
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night_angel Mar 18, 2011
defo.... alot of men want to try this dnt understand why!! but the best answer is defo SLERPS lol his face would change colour lol he wouldn't ask again lol
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claire18 Mar 29, 2011
true true
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amymaree Mar 30, 2011
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tell him ur nt ready nd u wntah tke it slow
santte002
santte002
Answered Mar 24, 2011
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tell hem you nt ready and that u wntah tke it slow!!!
is ok!!to tell hem how you feel!!!if he dont get youuuu!
he is not the one!!!:)
liz1205
liz1205
Answered Mar 24, 2011
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Well if it hurts then you should tell him becuase if he realizes that it hurts you and he really cares about you then he would care enough that he wouldnt want o hurt you by doing it.
Abrii
Abrii
Answered Mar 30, 2011
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Like slerp said, make it fair game. If he wants anal sex, then tell him you'll give him some. Get a dildo, and have sex with his ass. If he refuses, then you shall refuse to anal sex as well.
mofoandtheho
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Answered Apr 11, 2011
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You might actually try saying "No" to him. It is allowed, you know. If he doesn't respect the fact that you don't fancy getting buggered, and keeps on trying to persuade you, then dump his sorry arse. Suggest he goes to a Gym if he wants to find people also into this fetish of his. That might shut him up. I bet you've already dumped him by now anyway. If you haven't, did you acquiesce to his filthy lust in the end?
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Slerp Oct 19, 2011
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