My boyfriend wants to go further in our relationship and I am not ready

I am 15, he is 15 also. We go out from 2 months, but we don't see each other very often and we are not the typical couple, which is together all the time and is very inlove and romantic and so on and so on.
So a few days ago he told me that we are going out from 2 months, so he wants us to go on a next level, not just hooking up. and that wouldn't mean sex, but second and third base, blabla.
The problem is 1. I am not sure what does he expect really that is not sex, but not just hooking 2. when I turn on, I want to have sex, not just some bullshit BUT 3. I don't want to have sex yet... I find it early and although my body is ready, I think I am not ready psychically.
So I said we don't see each other enough, which is true - he didn't agree though. So now I wonder... Maybe I should break up with him? Still I want to give us a chance. We are a nice couple... I Don't know, I am very confused.
aksuhdkah
Asked Feb 23, 2011
Very simple. A guy who cares about you will be willing to wait until you're ready to move to a new level. Stick to your principles and you can't lose.
Rob
Answered Feb 23, 2011
Thanks! You are right. :) I don't know why this thought exactly vanished from my mind completely... Thanks again... If he continues complaining, I am going to break up with him. I won't shorten my life for such stuff. Although I have a tendency of doing it.
Thanks again.
yea he is...................:)
liz1205 May 04, 2011
Liz and rob sitting in a tree... Ok haha I'll stop ahehe
I think you are very sensible. The facts are that when you start the stuff he wants , it is sure to get him to want more and more, and its hard to resist once you have gone this far. You know where this is heading and you are not ready. Thats it. You are very smart. More facts 1. is that when a female gives her body, she gives her heart with it. Fact 2.. I dont know in all my long years of life, of any 15 year old boy who stays with one girl for very long. This is the age to be seeing different people, getting to know yourself and not getting dumped once he gets what he wants and gets tired of it and wants to move on. You will feel MUCH worse if this should happen if you get into the serious stuff. You will feel used, and you will be right. Males will say anything to get what they want in this department... but usually this is not "forever" love. If it is, he will wait for you to come to him in your own time. Dont rush into the heavy stuff at your age, it can screw you up big time.. Take care and stand firm.. This is about YOU too and not just what HE wants.
catlady422
Answered May 02, 2011
i now I have a boyfriend to but he loves me we have 6 mothe togetter I love him to if my man see this I just wat to say I love u bebe
erikaarias
Answered Mar 19, 2011
tell hem.................wat you think stop being a lil bitch or something,,,,,,,lol!na!will I feel the same way but sometime you have to say NO dats all....................
liz1205
Answered May 04, 2011
Can someone translate this for people over 27? I didn't think I would feel old so soon.
tell him that you need to know what he wants before you can make your desition
Tim_Tam
Answered Apr 08, 2012
if he REALLY "loves" u den he wouldnt be talkin about havin sex witt u
kevin13
Answered Jan 15, 2013
If he tries to force sex, end it
Anonymous_gx
Answered Sep 13, 2013
if he loves you he wouldn't be rushing you to do things you don't want if you believe he doesn't understand you then I honestly believe you should leave him and find someone that actually respect you and its willing to wait until your ready
xboriieeex
Answered Dec 13, 2014
So here’s my situation. My bf of three years decided he wanted to take time to fix himself and get right with God (we are both Christians) he said maybe there is hope we can can get back together if God leads us there. I just started no contact and I’m working on fixing myself, getting a new job and stuff. We were almost engaged but our biggest issue was I was not supportive of his family and we argued over that. Immaturity on my part. I also pushed him to change to much and I didn’t realize he didn’t even need to change. I see he joined a Christian dating site three days after he broke up with me but he said its only to meet friends. He is a very honest guy. I need get him back and my last chance was love spell . Entered on the website http://magical-rituals.com , because I read that he has a lot of positive feedback. I’m not disappoint. My lover back to me in only one month. We are happy couple now.

Darren344
Answered Jul 09, 2015
if pressures you to have sex he doesn't love you so leave him
destinys995
Answered Jun 18, 2016

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