I dont know if im bi or gay:(

Ok So im not sure but I feel like im either bi straight or gay Im just not sure yet. I have only told one friend I might be gay but im just not sure plaease help me choose I need help bad my friend is gay so thats why I thaought he might understand how can I know what I am?
Rocky117
Asked Feb 18, 2011
First of all I'm very sorry to say but no one but yourself is able to decide what you true sexuality is, it will eventually come out in time. The thing that helped me figure out I was bisexual was doing research on different tpyes of sexuality and sexual confusion. You sound very confused at this point and why not talk to your friend about how you are feeling and maybe he can shed some light on your truly awful situation, believe me I have been there it is not a good place to be. I do honestly wish you the best of luck with everything you encounter x
love Sexy2011.
P.S I would love to hear back from you x
Sexy2011
Answered Feb 18, 2011
Edited Feb 19, 2011
Try experimenting first and see if u like it. it'll take some time but it'll be worth it :)
sexynerd666
Answered Feb 18, 2011
Since I am not you, I can't give you an exact answer to your question but I think hearing my story might help you. I didn't really know what my sexuality was. I would worry over it everyday for about a year and a half. I knew I was attracted to girls, but was I still attracted to boys? So, just like you can't choose who you like, you can't choose when either. Eventually, I started liking this guy, that brought me to the conclusion that I did still like guys as well. Like Sexy2011 said, doing a lot of research on people's sexuality can be very beneficial. I found out many things I would have never known from that research, like there aren't just three sexualities. Besides homosexuality (gay), bisexuality (bi), and heterosexuality (straight), there's pansexuality (much like bisexuality, but instead of the idea of liking both genders, pansexuals like either), and many many more. Also, some people believe your sexuality is an ever changing thing. Although you may be attracted to only girls today, for example, in a few days, weeks, months or years, you could have reversed directions completely. And still others believe that everyone in the whole world is pansexual (they fall in love with the person, not the gender). The list of beliefs goes on and on. And although we live in a world of labels, I would suggest not striving to put one on yourself. I wasted a year's worth of thinking on it when I could have been thinking of MANY other things. My final advice is to not restrict yourself into a box of labels such as bisexual, gay, or straight. Be who you are and like who you like. It took me a year and a half to get to that point (or arguably my whole life up to when I was 14) so try and get ahead of the game and just live. Cheesy? A little, but still good advice. Hope I helped. Good luck!!!
mzpsych
Answered Mar 09, 2011
This is a very good answer mzpsych.
well it is only yoour life to figer out who yu are in life
shawwtybadd
Answered Mar 16, 2011
Do you think you could use proper grammar instead of all this abreviated nonesense?
does it matter watt hiz grammor iz? no it doosnt k
only u know the anwer to tht ? it be all up 2 u.
jwow3636
Answered Mar 30, 2011
Everyone is intitally straight u make the decision to make gay choices...don't follow in on the gay trend...sounds like ur confused cuz ur growing up in this crazy world where peple accept being gay is a normal thing...God made a man and a woman to be with each other, u really think he made us this way to be gay??? Think for urself
rackle
Answered Dec 28, 2012
You chose…
Notches
Answered Feb 18, 2013

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