Is It True Its Faster 2 get pregnant after your period finshes

Wondering Im TRying to get pregnant

You're 14. I'm sorry to say this so bluntly: please don't do this.

My mother had me when she was 14. She constantly had to struggle, sacrifice, work long hours, worry about me, take care of me, etc. SHE WORKED HARD and had to put every bit of energy she had into someone else (me) for 20 years. She lost her childhood. Heck, she lost her 20s. She couldn't have as much fun in high school and college because she had to take care of me. My diapers, etc, were the movie/hanging out money she never had. Daycare costs hundreds of dollars a week.

You wouldn't just be having a cute baby. You'd be having a crazed 2-year-old that wants to bite, throw toys, and worse, throw tantrums so you can't go do anything fun--or even go to the grocery store in peace. You'd have an 8-year-old that you have to do homework with every night. If you hate your own homework, think about struggling with someone else to do theirs. There's baking cupcakes for the class. Staying up all night with special projects. Running behind them to basketball games, scouts, soccer practice, or whatever. It's always something.

Kids cost money all the time! Diapers, bottles, doctor visits, books, toys, shoes and clothes that they constantly outgrow, field trips, day care, dental work, after-school care, friggin' college!

Don't do this to keep a guy. I've never seen this work, and I know a lot of single moms who thought this would solidify a relationship. Guys leave babies every day.

Please don't do this. It's too soon. You deserve at least another 10 years of fun and discovery and exploration for just yourself without having to take care of someone who needs 24-hour care.

I hope you're ok with my answer and understand what I'm saying. I'd really like to help you.

Big love.

You're entire cycle takes place "after" your last period finished. The key is to understand the time window after your last period when you are fertile. The web site below has a good explaination and a chart to calculate your fertile days.

http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/chartingcycles.html