A 14 year old dating a 26 year old.

okay so im 14 and im starting to fall for this 26 year old...i know sounds extreamely crazy huh?well its true and I honestly cant help it.when im with him it just feels right and feels like my life doesnt suck as much,not saying I have a sucky life im just saying he makes it a little bit better.you know?and I know im 14 and at that young age but im very mature for my age and very understanding I know people are gonna comment on this saying the dudes gross and a pedifile but hes not we dont have a relationship going in the sexual department at all its not like that we just connect on a whole different level its amazing..we have soo many things in common and we can even finish each others senteces,but im sooooo tired of sneking around with him its annoying,what am I supposed to doo?

wow you need to stop dating him thats totally illegal and if someone finds out he can be reported and taken to jail ..so I advise you to stop dating ur 14 and hes 26 hes dating a minor I dont care how mature u are ..if you were mature you would know that dating a man that age is wrong 26-14=12 years apart no you need to stop it now ...and what if you two are alone and he wanted sex from you ,but you dont wanna do you know that he can rape you ...you may think he wont but it might happen...you need to stop b4 its 2 late

No 14 year old should have to put up with such an inconvenience. Tell him to go down to the police department and apply for a permit. They will have him sign a sworn statement and issue him a felony immunity card.

What a 26 year old male is looking for in a relationship is not what a 14 year old girl is wanting. He is more interested in YOU, and don't let him take away your youth. Still be a kid, don't let him try to slow you down, try to settle in. Need be, have someone go with you if you go out somewhere. This is extremely dangerous, and trying to slow down seeing this person, or just stopping this relationship in it's tracks is by far the best idea.

I dont think its wrong at all. Im 14 years old also & I think its very sexy(; I find older men WAY more attractive then this little guys. I have personally never dated anyone that old. But I would love to try it & I think its good to be open minded about things. Experiences are good to have. I wish you look.

omg, im 15 now but when I was 14 I met a guy who was '24' when in fact he was 26 but we were together for a while I slept with him and lost my v to him. ingore these small minded people , if you like him and he likes you go for it.
in scotland at 16 you can date any age over 16 so why when im 15 is it such a big deal? go for it
older guys are way better than little school boys :P just be careful your not stupid so just go with it.
i bet he is way more of a gentleman than any of the little school boys? haha good luck ;) x

Omg I'm also 14 and dating a 26 year old guys,his brazilian and is such a gentleman,I prefer older guys than school boys..I think u should go for it but make sure he doesn't u want u for sex

im 14 and very mature for my age I dont even look my age ha,But I only date guys 21 and older...Because boys my age only want sex....People dont understand that it's the other way around sometimes teen boys want you all for sex older guys that are more mature want to get to know you.Ive been with 5 guys older..none teenage boys and I have to say they all treated me right.Please stop with the bullshit that there pedophiles...How are they pedophiles when there not even old enough to be your father,My father.Seriously and the sex thing as long as you consent it's okay.See I love sex,Im a very sexually person and so i'm more of the aggressor in that department.I dont think its wrong for a girl that is young 14,15,16 to date or like a older guy,Or have sexual relations.I understand that our brains are not fully developed yet,But I think that we can all agree that we know what we get ourselves into...we all know right from wrong.As far as the law goes its none of there business...Just like nosy people like to report things to the law because they don't understand and just come to think "Omg he is with that child,He is brainwashing her...He's a pedophile" When it could be a totally different story,and When actually we are not children,We are teen's and as far as im concerned little girls dont have breast,Little girls don't ovulate,Little girls dont have sexual fantasy or have sex and enjoy it.I believe once we go through Puberty,When our body matures into an adult body capable of reproduction,We have become a woman.I seriously hate how dumb people can be and not understanding.I know for a fact that I don't want a little boy I want a man,a Mature man that carries himself very well.I have a boyfriend that just turned 24 and he is charming and such a gentlemen,And must I say the sex is great (:.
I know people are going to tell me I don't know what im talking about,That I wont feel this way when im 20 and that il regret all my actions later on in the future,Well how the hell do you know all that when you,Yourself dont know the future,And you're not me.If you come across anybody like that just ask them those two questions...But I have no shame and no regret of what I have done,And I dont care if I get thumbs down...It's not my fault that i'm expressing how I feel and somewhat being turthful which some people just can't handle.
14 about to be 15

Okay I completely understand you, the same exact thing is happening to me, im 14 and the guy that I like is 26, but I just feel amazing around him, he is so respectful and great. People judge because its not them.. we both have feelings for each other but he knows its wron.. somebody pleasee help.. is it that bad? Or should I tell him to wait till im 18? People say I look 16& they say he looks 20.. everyone tells me I act very mature for my age.. please help?

What's the big deal.. I'm 15 with a 26yr old guy, its no ones business who you date its your life and your choice. I am totally with u guys on this. Older guys make you feel more better

hi my name is kendra im 16 years old im dating a 23 year old I went through all of this I had to talk to a lawyer and the police because they tried putting my fiance in prison we have been together since I was 13 years old and he was 20 if your parents say it is okay and they sign a paper saying you guys can date you guys can make a copy and keep it. You and your partner and your parents just incase something goes wrong dont let anyone tell you its wrong cause you are the only one that knows what you want people say its wrong for teenagers to be with an older guy but let everyone that is telling you its wrong bein your shoes show them what the boys your age act now days thats what I did to my mom I broght guys from my school home and I would say they were my boyfriend and I ended up loosing my virginity and my mom met my fiance and loved him he is respectful and loving and great and we have been together for 3 years almost 4 and we still have not had sex not all older guys want sex if you young girls need anything or need to talk about things like this please contact me at my email mz_kendra_96@yahoo.com and I will reply to when I get the chance but honey you go for what your heart tells you.... :) Love always Kendra..

I am 33 and in full support. Age is just a conceptand it wasn't till recent.they put.laws on it.and.brainwashed.us.in.what.is.natural.and.what.is."legal"

I saw if you really like this man then be happy with him. Im 16 and I only date older men. I got pregnat by a man that was 26 but we lost the baby. Older men know how to act with a girl, teenage boys only want sex. I wish you two the best of luck.