A 14 year old dating a 26 year old.

okay so im 14 and im starting to fall for this 26 year old...i know sounds extreamely crazy huh?well its true and I honestly cant help it.when im with him it just feels right and feels like my life doesnt suck as much,not saying I have a sucky life im just saying he makes it a little bit better.you know?and I know im 14 and at that young age but im very mature for my age and very understanding I know people are gonna comment on this saying the dudes gross and a pedifile but hes not we dont have a relationship going in the sexual department at all its not like that we just connect on a whole different level its amazing..we have soo many things in common and we can even finish each others senteces,but im sooooo tired of sneking around with him its annoying,what am I supposed to doo?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Feb 04, 2011
No shut up people its perfectly fine dont listen to them cause obviusly they never found true love, its perfectly fine honey, even though it is illegal if he really loves you he will wait till you're 18.
If you reeally love him, you will wait until you are 18 because in some states he can and most likely will get life in prison. Death is better for a guy than prison time! It’s not fair but the law is the law and you will not be punished for breaking it but he will. In prison he can look forward to being raped by big gnarly dudes daily and worse, is that the future you want for this guy? My son’s friend is facing something similar and her dad didn’t report them and they never thought they would be caught. Roman Polanski a very skilled director and producer who was married to Sharron Tate was dating a 14 year old at 27 and now he can never come back to this country because he knew he was going to prison a long time, so he left the country. If you can afford to it is a better option than prison.

In some states he can and most likely will get life in prison. California is more understanding they will only give him ten years of prison. When I was your age I was a virgin but I did date older guys and it was not big deal back then but today it is. (Meagan’s law maybe?) Girls mature sooner thanks to hormones in the meat they go through puberty at ten but the laws are stricter than they used to be because prison is big business in California and the US has more people in prison than any other country in the world!
Well, I can relate to you. I'm 14 and dating a 27 year old. We love each other and have a ton of things in common and I lost my v-card to him and were still together after 6 months. Honestly hes not robbing me of anything. So I'd say go for it and if its not sexual then Its okay for you guys to date.
dont worry im 14 and im in love with this 24 year old hes super sweet too but me and him are waiting till im 18 and on my graduation day hes asking to marry me. so ik how you feel hun its going to be hard but both of us can get throw it I promise!
wow you need to stop dating him thats totally illegal and if someone finds out he can be reported and taken to jail ..so I advise you to stop dating ur 14 and hes 26 hes dating a minor I dont care how mature u are ..if you were mature you would know that dating a man that age is wrong 26-14=12 years apart no you need to stop it now ...and what if you two are alone and he wanted sex from you ,but you dont wanna do you know that he can rape you ...you may think he wont but it might happen...you need to stop b4 its 2 late
pookie16
Answered Feb 04, 2011
No 14 year old should have to put up with such an inconvenience. Tell him to go down to the police department and apply for a permit. They will have him sign a sworn statement and issue him a felony immunity card.
Rob
Answered Feb 04, 2011
What a 26 year old male is looking for in a relationship is not what a 14 year old girl is wanting. He is more interested in YOU, and don't let him take away your youth. Still be a kid, don't let him try to slow you down, try to settle in. Need be, have someone go with you if you go out somewhere. This is extremely dangerous, and trying to slow down seeing this person, or just stopping this relationship in it's tracks is by far the best idea.
mohawk651
Answered Feb 05, 2011
I dont think its wrong at all. Im 14 years old also & I think its very sexy(; I find older men WAY more attractive then this little guys. I have personally never dated anyone that old. But I would love to try it & I think its good to be open minded about things. Experiences are good to have. I wish you look.
FuckinBarbie
Answered Feb 06, 2011
Yes it is WRONG STUPID the older guys would be put in jail now who wants that?
Stupid 14 year old girls should give little guys a chance people like you are waste of space piece of trash.
slut hooker
omg, im 15 now but when I was 14 I met a guy who was '24' when in fact he was 26 but we were together for a while I slept with him and lost my v to him. ingore these small minded people , if you like him and he likes you go for it.
in scotland at 16 you can date any age over 16 so why when im 15 is it such a big deal? go for it
older guys are way better than little school boys :P just be careful your not stupid so just go with it.
i bet he is way more of a gentleman than any of the little school boys? haha good luck ;) x
Cgm__
Answered Feb 09, 2011
Omg I'm also 14 and dating a 26 year old guys,his brazilian and is such a gentleman,I prefer older guys than school boys..I think u should go for it but make sure he doesn't u want u for sex
oshy
Answered Oct 30, 2011
i just turned 14 and I have dated a 30 year old I was with him for 1 year and 2 mths then I left him and I got together with a 26 year old I love him and I have never felt the way I feel with him I can talk to him and he understands me he talks to me and I understand him we get each other I love him and he is not just in it for sex I dont like these studied school boys to tell you the truth I like older guys they are more of a gentleman and yes he is in the military so u cant say nothing studied he was married but he got a divorce and im the first girl he has gone out with tat is younger then him I dont see why people think age is such a BIG think okay he lived longer then me and your point is.......all I got to say is age aint nothing but a number and if you love him go for it girlz I hate this law of under the age shit if you agree post something if u dont tell me and post something...
maranda Nov 14, 2011
im 14 and very mature for my age I dont even look my age ha,But I only date guys 21 and older...Because boys my age only want sex....People dont understand that it's the other way around sometimes teen boys want you all for sex older guys that are more mature want to get to know you.Ive been with 5 guys older..none teenage boys and I have to say they all treated me right.Please stop with the bullshit that there pedophiles...How are they pedophiles when there not even old enough to be your father,My father.Seriously and the sex thing as long as you consent it's okay.See I love sex,Im a very sexually person and so i'm more of the aggressor in that department.I dont think its wrong for a girl that is young 14,15,16 to date or like a older guy,Or have sexual relations.I understand that our brains are not fully developed yet,But I think that we can all agree that we know what we get ourselves into...we all know right from wrong.As far as the law goes its none of there business...Just like nosy people like to report things to the law because they don't understand and just come to think "Omg he is with that child,He is brainwashing her...He's a pedophile" When it could be a totally different story,and When actually we are not children,We are teen's and as far as im concerned little girls dont have breast,Little girls don't ovulate,Little girls dont have sexual fantasy or have sex and enjoy it.I believe once we go through Puberty,When our body matures into an adult body capable of reproduction,We have become a woman.I seriously hate how dumb people can be and not understanding.I know for a fact that I don't want a little boy I want a man,a Mature man that carries himself very well.I have a boyfriend that just turned 24 and he is charming and such a gentlemen,And must I say the sex is great (:.
I know people are going to tell me I don't know what im talking about,That I wont feel this way when im 20 and that il regret all my actions later on in the future,Well how the hell do you know all that when you,Yourself dont know the future,And you're not me.If you come across anybody like that just ask them those two questions...But I have no shame and no regret of what I have done,And I dont care if I get thumbs down...It's not my fault that i'm expressing how I feel and somewhat being turthful which some people just can't handle.
14 about to be 15
Monroe
Answered Nov 14, 2011
Edited Nov 14, 2011
Okay I completely understand you, the same exact thing is happening to me, im 14 and the guy that I like is 26, but I just feel amazing around him, he is so respectful and great. People judge because its not them.. we both have feelings for each other but he knows its wron.. somebody pleasee help.. is it that bad? Or should I tell him to wait till im 18? People say I look 16& they say he looks 20.. everyone tells me I act very mature for my age.. please help?
AnonymousPerson
Answered Apr 25, 2012
What's the big deal.. I'm 15 with a 26yr old guy, its no ones business who you date its your life and your choice. I am totally with u guys on this. Older guys make you feel more better
carter28
Answered Dec 30, 2012
hi my name is kendra im 16 years old im dating a 23 year old I went through all of this I had to talk to a lawyer and the police because they tried putting my fiance in prison we have been together since I was 13 years old and he was 20 if your parents say it is okay and they sign a paper saying you guys can date you guys can make a copy and keep it. You and your partner and your parents just incase something goes wrong dont let anyone tell you its wrong cause you are the only one that knows what you want people say its wrong for teenagers to be with an older guy but let everyone that is telling you its wrong bein your shoes show them what the boys your age act now days thats what I did to my mom I broght guys from my school home and I would say they were my boyfriend and I ended up loosing my virginity and my mom met my fiance and loved him he is respectful and loving and great and we have been together for 3 years almost 4 and we still have not had sex not all older guys want sex if you young girls need anything or need to talk about things like this please contact me at my email mz_kendra_96@yahoo.com and I will reply to when I get the chance but honey you go for what your heart tells you.... :) Love always Kendra..
kendra
Answered Jan 22, 2013
I am 33 and in full support. Age is just a conceptand it wasn't till recent.they put.laws on it.and.brainwashed.us.in.what.is.natural.and.what.is."legal"
reimnewd
Answered May 22, 2013
I saw if you really like this man then be happy with him. Im 16 and I only date older men. I got pregnat by a man that was 26 but we lost the baby. Older men know how to act with a girl, teenage boys only want sex. I wish you two the best of luck.
babysam
Answered May 22, 2013
Im sorry to burst your bubble! Your a child and he is an adult, its that simple! This creepy man is a very typical pedophile! Why do you think hes creeping around? Do you honestly think its cause he is worried for you? He knows that any right thinking decent adult out there would gladly beat the crap out of him, if they knew what he was doing! Its not your fault, your a kid but this filthy monster needs to be put in a cell and kept away from all children! Get a grip , before its too late!
DoctorOkter
Answered Jun 07, 2013
And thats where your wrong when you love someone age is just a number. Like she said they havent even had sex if she was with someone her age thats all the boy would want is sex
Fucking slut teen girls date some one your age hookers. Why the fuck would older guy be dating a kid he cant find some one his own age fucking looser.
darkherox99
Answered Aug 02, 2013
Edited Aug 02, 2013
Umm I'm . bout to be 15 with a 26 year old. Actually weve been together 3 years now. Yes hes been in trouble for his age & my age & he is willing to wait till im 18 for us to be really serious & are able to get married & stuff. I know this is kinda sad but I have already had this mans kid. you think skme.jail time will.serperate us? Not hardly. I say go for it girl. But listen to me on this . The cops most deff' will get involved & he can get in allot of trouble my bf is looking at the most 3 years in jail but yet he hasnt stepped a foot away from me. In 3 years . We have a kid together. Yes I know im.to young but shit yall live yalls life I have to be the one to answer for myself on judgment day sweattheart. So all yall haters can kiss my ass . My bf is my life . I could care less how old he is. Its nobodys buissness I dont think that there should be laws against the ages we can have sex with. Thats so gay man. Sence when was there a certain group of people that call themselfs the law any more able to take control of us than we are ourself. These cops & judges & lawyers needa go fuck they selfs if they think they're gonna ruin me & my bf. Wowww some jail time. Just means I know he aing tempted too cheat by time he gets out ill be almost 19 & we will be completely legal. So ha fuck you law.
jmt_anm
Answered Mar 13, 2014
What a pleasant surprise to hear all the intelligent people supporting this 14 year olds relationship with her older man and hopefully all the other young people reading this who are in similar situations will come to realize that these feelings, desires and attractions between older and young people are normal and natural to the human essence and nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about.

Only ignorance lacks experience, understanding and change and believe me the majority of people in this world fit comfortably in that category simply because they lack any cognitive skills to think for themselves, to research, to question and to experience or accept anything outside of their comfort zone, these are the people who would rather just go with the flow and condemn everyone who doesn't agree with the brainwashed beliefs that they have been taught since their childhood.
Suomynona
Answered Aug 08, 2015
Im also dating a 26 year old and I'm only 13
So its ok
StarWaffle
Answered Apr 12, 2017
That's kinda crazy an unsafe dont you think starwaffles?
Id lick suck fondle molest her sweet her smooth sexy body
That's kinda crazy what you're doing starwaffles
gumball
Answered May 03, 2017
honestly? I think its fine. I'm only 13 and have a boyfriend who is 21. We are like you guys, we don't do anything we shouldn't and he is ok with waiting until i'm 16 (in the uk you have to be 16 to be able to have sex legally). We also have loads in common and can talk for hours. I'm not gonna say you shouldn't date him because its your life but be careful and if he tries anything end it.
xx_becky_xx
Answered Mar 04, 2018
Yes, it's completely wrong. You should go for another partner. In this case, Asprey Introductions can help you.
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