Hi,
We both are friends started speaking for past 10-11 months. We work for same company but different countries though. I was in same office few months back. I proposed her. She didnt agree. But we used to talk like friends. I feel more for her. I call her daily and tell her that "I can't live without you, I want you, I will not marry anyone else, you are my heart, mind and you are everything for me, I can do anything for you... Dont even in your dreams imagine that I will marry another girl". She used to say, she cant love because her parents will be hurt if she goes and tell them that she loves a person and all.... We were talking till Sunday. Since monday she stopped attending my calls. I sent her emails and text but no reply. Two days later, she emailed me saying - "First of all I am extremely sorry ,but I need to tell you that I cant take you calls or mails
anymore.
I have told you before and telling you again that I dont see you more than a good friend,since you are not able to accept that I am not able to talk to you anymore.
You are a matured guy,please try and understand that there is no point in calling or insisting a person who is not interested in a relationship and ya m not gonna change my mind on this.
So Please concentrate on your career and try to forget me.
I hope you understand. "
I replied
"i am sorry if I have troubled you more constantly insisting a relationship with you…
i understand you are not liking it. So let's be friends.. u understand one thing.... u accept me as "good friend" right.. let us be friends... who said we cant be friends if we r nt in relationships?.. wat happnd to u suddenly.. I want to talk pls.. understand.. nt abt replationship but in general.. I promise I will nt talk abt relationship and moreover we cant stop talkin suddenly.. understand matured lady. ... we were talkin v v v frequently.. now u r sayin don want to talk all of sudden..
pls agree... talk to me once.. I will explain..
plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss agree to talk…. We were and are good friends till now. Come on…"
she replied saying
"i agree wid u...i shldnt ve spoken 2 u in first plc...thts my mistake...
but I alwes thght lets not lose a frnd coz of this stupid thing..thts the reason I was tlkin n tryin 2 mak u undersstnd everytim...but seems lik u don understnd...so its better 2 stop now instead of takin it fwd.."
I replied
"ok I understood , tht u was / are serious abt not having relation , n from now on u will b just frnd
pls .. want to talk.. lets talk pls".
I still love her and I cant think of another girl in my life... I cant replace anyone in my heart...
After a week it was New year and I called her. We spoke for some time and after that she went on vacation to home town. I tried to call her but she didnt pick. Now she is back to work but she is not picking my calls now also, not replying to emails. I try to text her through internet(Internet to phone) - obviously she cannot reply thru phone to Internet. But she can email right. she is not doing so. (Its been a month we spoke with each other)
I cannot live without her. I feel like dying. She is my life and she is everything for me.. I want her....
Thing is her parents are seeking a guy for her marriage now and I am asking her to wait till I come back and talk with parents about marriage. Whatever I text or email or call, she does not respond. I want to die. I want to die..
We both are friends started speaking for past 10-11 months. We work for same company but different countries though. I was in same office few months back. I proposed her. She didnt agree. But we used to talk like friends. I feel more for her. I call her daily and tell her that "I can't live without you, I want you, I will not marry anyone else, you are my heart, mind and you are everything for me, I can do anything for you... Dont even in your dreams imagine that I will marry another girl". She used to say, she cant love because her parents will be hurt if she goes and tell them that she loves a person and all.... We were talking till Sunday. Since monday she stopped attending my calls. I sent her emails and text but no reply. Two days later, she emailed me saying - "First of all I am extremely sorry ,but I need to tell you that I cant take you calls or mails
anymore.
I have told you before and telling you again that I dont see you more than a good friend,since you are not able to accept that I am not able to talk to you anymore.
You are a matured guy,please try and understand that there is no point in calling or insisting a person who is not interested in a relationship and ya m not gonna change my mind on this.
So Please concentrate on your career and try to forget me.
I hope you understand. "
I replied
"i am sorry if I have troubled you more constantly insisting a relationship with you…
i understand you are not liking it. So let's be friends.. u understand one thing.... u accept me as "good friend" right.. let us be friends... who said we cant be friends if we r nt in relationships?.. wat happnd to u suddenly.. I want to talk pls.. understand.. nt abt replationship but in general.. I promise I will nt talk abt relationship and moreover we cant stop talkin suddenly.. understand matured lady. ... we were talkin v v v frequently.. now u r sayin don want to talk all of sudden..
pls agree... talk to me once.. I will explain..
plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss agree to talk…. We were and are good friends till now. Come on…"
she replied saying
"i agree wid u...i shldnt ve spoken 2 u in first plc...thts my mistake...
but I alwes thght lets not lose a frnd coz of this stupid thing..thts the reason I was tlkin n tryin 2 mak u undersstnd everytim...but seems lik u don understnd...so its better 2 stop now instead of takin it fwd.."
I replied
"ok I understood , tht u was / are serious abt not having relation , n from now on u will b just frnd
pls .. want to talk.. lets talk pls".
I still love her and I cant think of another girl in my life... I cant replace anyone in my heart...
After a week it was New year and I called her. We spoke for some time and after that she went on vacation to home town. I tried to call her but she didnt pick. Now she is back to work but she is not picking my calls now also, not replying to emails. I try to text her through internet(Internet to phone) - obviously she cannot reply thru phone to Internet. But she can email right. she is not doing so. (Its been a month we spoke with each other)
I cannot live without her. I feel like dying. She is my life and she is everything for me.. I want her....
Thing is her parents are seeking a guy for her marriage now and I am asking her to wait till I come back and talk with parents about marriage. Whatever I text or email or call, she does not respond. I want to die. I want to die..
0

