Stuck in between

okay here is something unique .. I am in love with a Guy from Turkey . we are in long distant relationship . have never had physical contact from him . but its just something deep that truly I realized in the first chat . Well I am no longer interested in other guys even . He then said he loves me and I know he means it . And I love him too . And I love everything about him . WOw he is so perfect . He is studying MEdicine and will be a doctor the next year . He will come to my country after his studies are complete . Well thats alright cause his studies are improtant . the problem as all long distant relationships are .. but this is unique I don't know my family will agree witht he relationship cause we have same catholic but we are traditions catholics and they are well Not at all and think athiest . DOes not believe in jesus or anything heaven hell like not a single belief but does like perform chiristmas . Well this is important otherwise I would'nt of asked

I woul not of asked if this was not important to me cause what my family desides for me I follow that even letting him go . So don't tell me what to do or not . I want him to become catholic again but he does'nt believe so I cannot be with him .. WHat to do should we just break up we did tried that we were very miserable like a whole month was like we had lost the soul . Then he apologized cause he said he wants to work thins out .. Then we are trying to understand each other beliefs . and working but I know he won't change and I know my father would not agree to this relationship . I had some proposals to in the mean time which I all rejected cause I truly love him . Help me .......
cannot break up cannot be together stuck in between......

Putting families together is difficult when you live across the street from each other. When you come from different cultures and religions it can become unbelievably complicated. As good as the words you write to each other may sound, there are so many other things that have to work between the two of you for the relationship to be a good and lasting one.

I would recommend that you visit him and his family and allow him to visit you and yours before either of you make a decision on where your relationship is going next. It is possible your families may change their minds and it is also possible the two of you don't find the attraction as strong once you meet face to face.

One thing is for certain, both of you will have to be flexible and willing to compromise on issues like religion, cultural tradition and dealing with children. If the two of you can't find common ground in those areas, you need to end it now.