Is my husband trust worthy after catching him with nude photos of my daughter

I love my husband, I knew when we married he had a lingerie fetish, It didn't get bad until I caught him with my daughter;s underwear,(20yr old) and recently found out he had nude photos of her that he had stolen from her stuff but he says he's sorry and that he loves me, am I stupid for believing him?
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Anonymous User
Asked Dec 25, 2010
No one deserves to be cheated on, especially when your full loyalty lies with the betrayer of your trust. Initially, I thought I was just feeling insecure when my husband would just be on his phone at odd hours, until I decided to take a chance to know, knowing is better than self doubts and it was exactly what happened when I employed the services of this particular group I came across by chance to help check his phone out intoto. Their services includes: phone calls, messages, contacts, social media(viber, whatsapp,facebook,kik e.t.c), emails, any kind of manipulations ,Geo location tracking, all other hacking and web hacking issues.
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Your husband can both love you and be sorry but that doesn't mean he's cured. He has things going on in his mind that are different from the normal male and the normal parent. Getting caught seldom resolves sexually driven issues. He needs professional help.

Rob
Answered Dec 25, 2010
I know you answer tons of questions here and have a high reputation (if you're even one person), but does that make you an expert on normalcy? Please recommend a book or article on what normal male parents feel regarding nudity, underwear, and sexuality and about how sexual attractions develop, and don't just repeat what every one believes and wants to believe.

I have been researching this issue since before I was old enough to read and I still haven't found any reliable statistics on this subject. Any reliable and non-biased research would be welcome.
The question was, could she believe her husband when he says he's done with that behavior. She didn't ask for a disertation on sexual deviation.
Rob Jan 01, 2011
hellllllllllllllllllllll naw...he gota go
TerrenceGray17
Answered Jan 01, 2011
he definitely need some help...................................................................................
ezhilan
Answered Dec 26, 2010
Maybe he just likes nude photos and underwear. You can't tell me that your husband never saw her naked growing up and that you don't have any nude photos of her kicking around in some photo albums or something. Or did you destroy them all as soon as she got older?

Nudity doesn't mean there's anything sexual going on... most people like being naked and like seeing other people naked, especially people they love. And there are thousand and one explanations why someone would have someone's underwear, that don't involve anyone wanting to hurt someone else.

Does he treat her badly in other ways or make her feel uncomfortable and worthless as a human?

Being afraid of nudity and of touch is something that we teach children by being ashamed of our own bodies. Probably your husband is frustrated that as your kid grew up, they are no longer able to be affectionate to each other, and maybe he even thinks of it as sexual tension, but it's not, it's just craving affection, warmth, and touch, like every other human and mammal. People are being driven crazy by being so isolated from each other and they often turn to sexual feelings, as a last resort.

I know some people don't like this answer... but it's true. Don't just call people perverts and say they need help, if you don't know anything about them or their situation. I bet you millions of people feel sexual feelings towards people they love all the time and still never do anything to hurt them, and on the other hand, lots of parents don't have any sexual interest in their children and still mess them up in a million other ways, such as making them hate themselves, their bodies, and think that no one loves them or cares abut them, especially not their parents.

Sexual attraction is not well understood anyone in our society, even professionals, and yet everyone feels like they're an expert. What's up with that?



docterhorribl
Answered Jan 01, 2011
Edited Jan 01, 2011
Great educated answer, finally an answer from someone who know what the truth is, it's just to bad that most people will not learn anything from it because they are to brainwash by so called societal norms, which in reality are actually perverting the natural essence of human nature.. Worldly knowledge and wisdom are foolish and the true perversion in our world today.
No you not stupid in believing him as long as you can trust his daughter!
MyNews
Answered Jan 02, 2011
its wrong when your daughter is 20 years old, .... I dont think your feelings should come into the equation I think you should ask your daughter how she feels. But certainly get your husband help.
claire18
Answered Mar 29, 2011
No one deserves to be cheated on, especially when your full loyalty lies with the betrayer of your trust. Initially, I thought I was just feeling insecure when my husband would just be on his phone at odd hours, until I decided to take a chance to know, knowing is better than self doubts and it was exactly what happened when I employed the services of this particular group I came across by chance to help check his phone out intoto. Their services includes: phone calls, messages, contacts, social media(viber, whatsapp,facebook,kik e.t.c), emails, any kind of manipulations ,Geo location tracking, all other hacking and web hacking issues.
You can reach them via
Stunter294 on gmail
Betyjane082
Answered Sep 18, 2017

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