Am in love with a girl and am a girl 2 how do I tell her :/

i dont know how to tell her...
dianka1998
Asked Dec 21, 2010
Edited Dec 21, 2010
in order to answer I need to know if u know if the grl u like is lgbtq or straight, so update ur question nd i'll answer. cuz if she's bi/lez what u would do is different from what u'd do if u don't know her sexuality

1st i'd find out if she's bi, cuz otherwise u might ruin ur friendship if she's straight
aberri123
Answered Dec 21, 2010
Edited Dec 23, 2010
no she didnt ttell me anythin bout tht :/
It is abnormal to like a girl in a sexual way,cuz, the female body is designed to receive a penis, she does not have one, and two females cant get pregnant together, so try liking a man, that is how it is supposed to be and leave the girl alone.
pinky Oct 24, 2012
i dont think it works that way otherwise why are all those lesbians on the world? I think she should tell her in a private room!
Listen up pinky. Love is love at the end of the day.
You Can'T Controll What Happens. Keep Your Small Minded Opinions To Your Self
Do you want to tell her directly or indirectly?
For directly, you could always do something cute like use a pick up line, or make an arrangement of food that says "I like you."
For indirectly, look at this question I answered earlier this week: http://www.ehelp.com/questions/10442407/how-do-you-tell-your-friend-that-you-have-a-crush-on-them
Of course, if she doesn't already know you aren't straight, you might want to tell her that a couple days before you begin telling her. I mean, if you just tell her "I'm not straight and I like you" it might be awkward. So, tell her your sexuality first and gauge her reaction. If she freaks out... probably not a good idea to tell her. If she's fine with it, then awesome, go for it!
Good luck!
mzpsych
Answered Dec 22, 2010
thts hard and she is quite a hard person to say sumthin like tht she might laugh
or she might not even talk to me for a very long time :'(
Well, hate to break it to you but it's never easy. Also, you can't really tell her you like her without not telling her your sexuality.... but you can always just hint at it and not actually tell her...
mzpsych Dec 22, 2010
yh thank you so much I think the time will come wen am ready and am sure it will come and sure we will be 2gether
well real u need 2 get more info out of her that is wat I try 2 do get her phone number 2 that will help
Hellothere
Answered Dec 22, 2010
yep I got her phone number but wat do I do text her from another fone and say it?
NO you don't want to freak her out trust me don't do that slowly tell her like sing a song 2 her my crush did that 2 cooler than me but she did not say it in words like I love you so give that a go
i am goin to be scared and plus I hate tht song sorry am a hard person
its ok u just need 2 do sumet that will make her love you move get more closer 2 her that might work there is something that will give it away that she likes you
I would go slowly and find out whether she has any les/bi tendencies first. If you try to approach her, and she is straight, that could cause problems with your friendship. It is always difficult to try and approach someone regardless of sexual persuasion and there is always the possibility of rejection and humiliation. Just be yourself and see what happens, if it is meant to be you will know when the time is right.
ianc13
Answered Dec 22, 2010
even if I go slowly I will be scared and we never get time 2gehter I see her on the bus we talk and tht and in school but... I am jus to scared to do it
just to say ...isn't gay forums that could help you way more than some random idiot here ?
Megaverse
Answered Dec 30, 2010
who you callin a random idiot
hahaha just jokin I agree with u ps. I am an idiot
just tell her. its not like ur gonna die if u do :)
sexynerd666
Answered Jan 08, 2011
i agree
does the female like girls also?
ness96
Answered Feb 11, 2011
U know im going through it 2 but like u need 2 know wat its like 2 love someone and not just like her !
kekecream14
Answered Feb 16, 2011
i dont jus like her am crazy for her I really love her
Ummm SO... well, I am a girl, I am bi, I like my two bestfriends, L**** and E**** (: ... they don't know but me and L**** are very close and HAVE once in our lives kissed, now, I am for sure she is straight but she doesn't very much act like it. So my suggestion is, try to hold her hand if shes ur bestfriend, sit close to her, hug her, then, after awhile of doing that, tell her your bi, bi is u like boys n girls, ( even if you don't, tell her. ) and c her reaction, now, if she freaks out, ask her to keep it a secret, and if she tells ppl and a rumor goes around, say it never happend, but, if shes nice enough and promises not 2, tell her you like her aswell... lol my suggestion
11XxzozoxX11
Answered May 29, 2011
but its hard to tell her and I cant tell her and shes my best mate and I find it hard to tell her that I love her but I just know how to put it? :/
find out if shes into guys or not... then youll see.. I agree with another commenter here...--> if its ment to happen it will but you gta see what shes into first..
nagdalo
Answered Jan 17, 2012
Umm that's hard coz if you do tell her and she's not
Interested it will be really awkward and you won't
really speak again but she could fell the same way
Do it by text she what's she replys if its bad just simply
Reply omg so sorry frape haha if she replys back with something
Good their you go(: good luck!x
Flora
Answered May 24, 2012
i have this enormous days..i couldnt tell of how many percent that girl can like me.. at school is actually different but.. the way she looks is very different than the others..no idea but ive sort of knew there was something she can"t tell me...i mean wat could it be ??? not by the way I talk move ,i must be something that I dont know..this story is so so not understandable ... what should I do if I like her,but she has a bestfriend whom she likes....:(((((

camyleanne
Answered Jun 04, 2012
tell them your a bi then slap her and run
lIRONDONKEY94
Answered Jan 11, 2013

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