i use to go to a dance when I saw her I new she was the one my friends new I was crazy about her and tryed to get us together and one night at the dance my mate got a table new her so I could chat with her we all talked for a bit and I asked the girl I like would she like my number and looked at me and said sure and then I gave her my number went home could not wait for her to text me or call me and then days went she texted me a message and when I was texting her back I mention I had kids as she didnt know and I had to somehow bring it all up and after that didnt here from her so I contacted her asked her why she said she was not ready for a relationship and that she just broked up from her girlfriend well I still keeped at her trying to win her heart and at one point she text me a message saying ok ok just take it slow then I get a call from her yet again saying she was not ready never saw her again at the dance so I stop going and 7 years later I still thought of her tryed to get over her with other women and like im not ulgy I have been told by women im goodlooking and she even told me that well to get to the end of the story a few months age I saw her on a site like facebook she added me it was nice to see a photo of her but I never forgot what she looked like and well I tryed to get her to message me she did she said the same thing to me she was not ready for a relationship as yet it hurt yet again her telling me the same words I remember and well it hurt so I delated her and I have ended up delating her 11 times yet she still adds me and why I dont know I found out a way to get her to talk to me as it seems she has this big wall up well it worked for a little time then she stop talking to me I asked her a question on the site it read if you could ask one thing to me what would it be and her answer was why do you keep going off and on the site all the time and I think she means as I log on and go off some times in 20mins as I live with family they always seem to want me so I log off but why would she say that to me as that alone tells me she is watching me when I go on and off and well I asked her another question whats your star sign thats what I ask dum I know but I just wanted to get to know her better and her answer to that was obstinate and like im so confused I dont understand if she likes me or not as one min I feel she does then I dont please help me I just dont know if she likes me and my friends says she is just playing with my feeling's I just dont know
Asked Dec 12, 2010
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yeah I no thats super confusing,as why I ask for help ....i meet a girl at a gay dance ,she got my number ,as soon as I said I had kids she changed, for me I was head over heals in love with this girl and I told her so ,i never saw her again until I found her on line on a site like facebook...i delated her a few times on that site ,i guess to see if she would add me again ,she did add me every time....ive tryed to talk to her and at one point we were talking a little but it seems she has this wall up like she does not want to let anyone in....she is a very hard person to get to know ,she recently said something to me to make me think she looks for me on line ....but recenty all I did trying to talk to her was ask what star sign she was and all she said back is the word ''obstinate'' I no what that mean's but I just dont get it ????
blondei Dec 14, 2010
