u r only a loser if u view urself to be a loser, and u are only popular if u see urself that way. I know it will be difficult but try and put urself out there more, nd build up ur self esteem. if u have any intrests, like theater or sumat, join a club and ull find ppl who u have at least one thing in common who u can hang out with. and being a virgin has nothing to do with popularity unless ur trying to hang out with douches. u could also try a club outside of school if u feel its to difficult to become "unshunned" at school, if u really are shunned. i've been where u r, it will get better. hope I helped