It's not all right to be boy crazy or man crazy at 44, let alone at 14. Likewise it isn't cool for a male to be woman crazy either. When you've lived considerably longer you will notice that people like that have a very difficult time making it through life. Jobs don't last, relationships don't last and the time comes when they don't look as hot as when they were younger. You can't make a clock run backwards.
A benchmark test of maturity is how far you can see in the future. At 14, you should realize that within a few years you will have to support yourself. Education will make that happen. You may want a family. Finding one person you have a long term future with will make that possible.
The men that are looking at you are losers just like you will become if you don't get a handle on it. Being pretty will get you some leering looks but being both pretty and smart will get you about anything you want.
This boy or girl didn't say that any men were looking at her and you called them losers? She or he said that some boy or boy's started like them and you don't know what age they are or anything else about them. People aren't losers for being interested in this other person, how could you know that?
And even the person asking the question could be lying about their age, teenagers and kids are real smart and people are teaching them to not tell the truth about themselves on the internet.
Being able to see the future is not always a good benchmark for maturity. I know lots of people who are healthy functioning adults who can't see very far into the future.
Ordinarily you give such good answers, too. What's up with this one?
This isn't a debate. We all come from different directions and from different experiences. Many of the poorly written questions can be read in many ways. If you don't like my answers, put yours up there.
