I think my friend is dieing help!

ok my friend takes drugs smokes and drinks and she has had this really bad cough and she doesnt do much like she used to like me and her sister go and walk the dogs before she used to now she dont me and her sister only do it now she thinks that I like her sister better then her (when I like them the same) and she just yer... anyway back to the story.... to day right she was havin a smoke and then she spewed every where unlike before she never did that im very worryed bout her I wish I could help her but she wont stop drinking smoking and doing drugs plz help what is wrong with her she was going to go to the docks and she didnt cauze the show was on she is very sick why is she can someone plz help me cause I dont want her like this any more plz help
plz help me plz plz plz plz plz im down on my knees
babe04
Asked Oct 27, 2010
Edited Oct 28, 2010
There is nothing anybody here can do to change your friend's behavior nor is there anything you can do. She is the one that has control of where this is leading and it's up to her to change. Make sure you don't become an enabler and prolong her dealing with her problems.
Rob
Answered Oct 28, 2010
what is wrong with her??
babe04 Oct 28, 2010
There's a lot of things that could be wrong with her. Most all of them are psychological. The point is, nobody can do anything for her without her participation. That means the people around her shouldn't clean up after her, support her, loan her money or give her a lot of attention for her bad behavior. Everybody should let her know they're willing to help her change but not willing to participate in her destruction.
Rob Oct 29, 2010
thanks rob what else can I do to help her is there anything else I really want to help her. If it wasnt for her I would probley be in hospitle right now and have no friends cause I dont like fighting but people round here do. Now if you met her first time you would think "oh shez a bitch who gets everything she wants." But you have to get to know her she is really nice. I want to help her cause she helped me. And she is my friend.
babe04 Oct 30, 2010
You can only change yourself. You can't change someone else.
Rob Oct 31, 2010
tell someone who can help convince her. if she's underage, tell an adult and get her to the hospital
aberri123
Answered Nov 11, 2010
tell her that you dont want to be around her if she wont change, and let her know that if she is willing to change than you will help, but be strict and stick to your answer no mater what. if she wont change move on but pray for her.
watrick
Answered Nov 11, 2010

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