Is thinking about havin sex with a 22 year bad when im only 14 nd he wants me 2 fck him2

well I met this man in new york he want me to met him again and I really dont know to much about him do you think it would be a good idea can I get this man in trouble if I dont want to.

Your being 14 years old and his being an adult makes it a crime for him to solicit sex from a minor and a much more serious crime if he actually had sex with you. Talk to a parent, an adult you trust, or the police.

There are good reasons for those laws. If you do that with someone you don't know anything about, you can become pregnant, get a sexually transmitted disease or possibly be exposed to a dangerous criminal.

Please don't let this go any farther.

I totally agree with Rob. Please, please don't do this. It is dangerous. And it could be a fatal mistake. Stay away from such situations!

Please please please dont do this. I am 15 and I think I could do better for u. and if u do this I will report him to the police. u mite think im being a bitch but I hate when these kinds of things happen. yurr gonna make me cry just please please dont do this if u had a daughter would u want hrr to do the same thing yurr doing I dont think so. plz I am only trying to help I kno I said plz alot but I dont kno wat else to tell u. :l

YUCK ,............ Thats Really Wrong

That is illegal and could be dangerous for your benifit. Pregnancy, STD, etc. stay away from him, unless you really REALLY like him in which case wait till your at LEAST 18 (20) as the age gap won't be valued as much. But if you only just net him there's a high chance he doesn't do this to you. Have the police involved Iff possible, or tell a trusted adult to which it will be looked into.

I recommend u see a school counselor. If uve dropped out of school, talk to ur parents, or parents of a friend. Ask them to help you find a good, affordable social worker/psychologist.
Hopefully, you have health insurance that will cover your counseling sessions. If not, call/go to local hospital or church. Ask them to help you find a good (youth) counselor.
You are young and alone. I think you need to be ur OWN best friend. LOVE YOURSELF. No 14-yr-old has truly discovered themselves! You wanna be hangin' w/ ur girlfriends: going out to eat; playing sports; learning musical instrument; seeing good movies; & all the other funs things for a young life! Think: legal adult age's not till *18*!
Stay clear of sex. If u find yourself feeling in love with a boy YOUR AGE--STILL you want/need to take it slow. Again, Love Thyself.
Finally, whether ur in school or working--take time to maximize your youth. YOURS/YOU. NOT sexual partners; not till ur older and after uve defined ur own identity.
You'd be amazed @ all you learn with a little time. KNOW THYSELF. Wait for a while before taking on the big, adult stuff that ule be juggling for the rest of your life, later on!
Trust me. I'm a woman in my 50s. I know what I'm talking about.