Girl left me cause I messed up, trying to fix it how do I show her if she want talk to me.

My life was set, I had a awesome job I loved, a beautiful girlfriend that wanted to marry me and I gave it all up. I started useing drugs and going down the wrong path. I lied to her, and did many things behind her back. I am trying to make it right I am going to rehab and na meetings, and everything I can to show her that I want to change and be back to the old me she fell in love with. I have been giving her space cause that is something I know she needed but I would like to start talking to her again and mending the relationship that I so easily through away. How should I go about winning her heart back. I know she still loves me cause she told my sister that. How long should I wait and whats the best way I should go about it? I already sent an apology letter and no reply.

If she didn't respond to your letter that means she's not ready yet. She probably feels like she's been burned and is now afraid of the fire. I suspect it will take more than words to change that, it will be based on what you do.

You are wise to give her space. I would focus on positive things like education, improving your skills and making responsible decisions. When she sees you are doing that and you have broken away from the crowd you used to hang with, that will reduce her fear enough to try again. In the mean time, make sure you understand this is all up to you. Nobody could blame her for the fear she has.

Okay thats yurr fault and u dont deserve to get her back. shes to good for u anyway and she deserves better. u should have never done that.

Dont tell her ur sorry show her ur sorry. Win her back. Make her all in love with you just like she did back in the day. Hope I helped(: