I think I am a lesbian.Plz help!

Hi.I think I am a lesbian.
I think this cuz today when my friend asked
me what boys do I like I got this weird feeling.
I also think
that I am a les. cuz I havent been attracted 2
boyz lately.Every time I think of me kissing a boy I
get this weird disgusting feeling,but when I imagine me
kissing another girl I feel right not weird.When we dress out in p.e. I get a weird feeling when I am around the girls.And if
i am a les. how can I find another girl like me to date?
PLZ ANSWER ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<:)
i kinda have 2 ?'s(questions) sry about that
smiley263
Asked Sep 14, 2010
Edited Sep 14, 2010
Whether you're les or not, all people have to go through the process of finding someone they're compatable with. When you feel like you need to do something about it, that's peer pressure. You feel like the train is leaving the station and you're going to miss it unless you do something now.

If you read the questions asked here about personal relationships, many of the problems are because people rush into things they're not ready for and it turns into a delimma. The answer is simple. You don't have to do anything. Accept yourself for who you are and take care of your business every day. Someone will come along that you want to spend time with, you will bond with them and the "rest will be history" as they say. That will happen even if you try to avoid it. Just relax and give Mother Nature time to do her thing.

The young people who try to be first in the peer pressure rat-race most often finish last. The object isn't to be first, it's to find a relationship that works and that just takes time.

Rob
Answered Sep 15, 2010
you just have to wait and see, and eventually, you'll be able to figure it out for yourself. things will clear up by themselves.
pistachio314
Answered Sep 14, 2010
you seem to base it on what your friend does, also, you are only a lesbian if you are attracted to girls
gingerkid
Answered Sep 14, 2010
i added stuff and thanks 4 the advice but I was hoping u would really understand.give me the right advice.and in the paragraph it says how I feel about girls.and plz 4 give me if I sound mean.
Ask_Sean Says, If you really feel wierd around this girl why not tell her and say that you have feelings for her she should understand (i think) if if it's meant to be then itl happen theres loads of fishes in the sea!
Ask_Sean
Answered Sep 15, 2010
if ur a les then its perfectly natural dnt worry about anything ur friends nd family will support u no matter what the same thing happened with me when I finally realised I was bi sexual so dnt worry kk :) !!!!!!!!!
Panda
Answered Sep 15, 2010
thxs so much<:)
well im bisexual, so I mean to be honest the way I truly decided , that the feeling was right, I never felt weird changing around other girls so one night my bestfreind was staying the night nd I was like hey melissa she was like yeah, I was like we should make out she was like seriously I was like yeah a one time thing she was like alright im down lets do this . so we made out , nd I decided I really was bisexual nd not questioning , all I can say is kiss another girl how to find one ask a couple freinds , if they kno a lesbian get the kno that lesbian tell her your questioning if you have a myspace add me ill try to help you out more chrystal_dgaf@yahoo.com
or juss email me (:
chrystal_scheer
Answered Nov 15, 2010
i dont think ur a lez..but don't go that way.....
TerrenceGray17
Answered Nov 17, 2010
There is really nothing wrong about being a les. Its who u r not what u r. Nd if u r, then theres plenty of girls out there who r les or bi. Im sure u'll find someone out there. Juss keep ur head up!
Sammy_xoxo
Answered Dec 08, 2010
u give out good advise
Ty <3
u would be serprize how meany there r
pokemon01
Answered May 10, 2011
If your a lesbian just......... well one thing for sure dont hide it! move slowly into it you will eventually find sombody!
Hydra25
Answered Feb 01, 2012
jjj
zoo123
Answered Jul 09, 2011
email me princessjosephineelizabeth@yahoo.com
snowballdaisy19
Answered Aug 16, 2011

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