(First of all, Rob, I really like you: a man who has a clue! Yay! I wish there were more like you.)
Now, for the questioner, "Career". Oooh, I smell your desperation! Your horniness! Your total cluelessness!
Ok, I'll be nice and explain the facts of life for you and other clueless, horny and desperate males:
Women are different from men. We have about 5% of your sex drive. This doesn't mean that we hate sex. It just means that there are lots of other things we consider to be equally important - or (gasp! shock!) more important. The women you see on porn movies or in strip clubs are paid good money to indulge male sexual fantasies. In real life, even a VERY horny lady won't be quite as horny as the average man.
Women who are not hookers like their sex mixed in with things like love, romance, cuddling, affection, security, commitment, marriage, maybe a family.
My most intense sexual experiences have happened in a serious relationship or marriage, always with someone I loved, someone I trusted.
I know you don't want to hear this. You want lots of one night stands and "booty calls", free of charge, free of attachment, loveless yet passionate, involving lots of pretty female bodies, all their attention centered on you, no talk but "dirty talk", lots of ecstatic wiggling and moaning, "Oh, Career...Career...you're the best I ever had. Again, please...oh, PLEASE, Career!"
Yeah, right. The best place to find those naughty nympho cuties is in your dreams. LMAO!