Help! My friends gothic!

I have had the same friend since elementry school. My friend, Kaeli, started dressing gothic in middle school. I am a Christian, and it really does bother me. She came to school once with a black slipknot shirt and it looked like a satanic sign on the back, but she tried to tell me it wasnt. Now, I still love her, but I dont like the way she dresses.

-She wears alot of black and dark red blazers
-Sometimes black dolly dresses with combat boots or high heel boots
-Lots of bauhaus shirts
-ALOT of black eye makeup
-Piercings everywhere
-She wears a wiccan pentacle.

How do knock some sense into her and put her out of this dark spell?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Aug 18, 2010
Edited Aug 18, 2010
If you see nothing in her behavior that indicates there may be a problem, I wouldn't worry about it. She may just think she looks good in black.

As long as she's not doing anything that's dangerous to anybody, it's not for you to try to correct it. As a friend, don't lecture to her, listen to what she says and try to understand. Remember, we don't all believe the same things and she has as much right to her beliefs as you do.

It's not what's on your friend's back that counts, it's what's in her mind.
Rob
Answered Aug 18, 2010
Edited Aug 18, 2010
ok I see no problem with this. you wont like this but there is nothing wrong with that as long as she doesnt start to do bad things. let her be herself dont judge her. if thats how she wants to dress than let her. you cant control her. thats what I look like. I dress in black, wear slipknot shirts, and my sister is wiccan. I see no problems with it.
night_angel
Answered Aug 18, 2010
Ask_Sean Says, why not talk to her about it becaue you cant just click a finger and everything is back to normal (not being rude or anything) but maybe she doesnt want to change but maybe if she/he knew how you feel then maybe theres a chance....
Ask_Sean
Answered Sep 30, 2010
There is nothing wrong with wearing a pentagram, most people just thinks it looks cool, she is just going through a phase, do not worry, I went through that phase, it will soon pass, as long as you try and keep her on track with a steady life, and stick by her she will be okay :)
CallumCyanide
Answered Sep 30, 2010

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