I like this guy and dont know what to do. he has a girlfriend

we started out friends. we texted all the time and it eventually became like alot of flirting plus we hungout 24/7 more then him and his girlfriend. he even made comments about him not knowing and seeing about us. well eventually all the flirting and stuff turned into him cheating on her with me multiple times. and idk now recently he has been more distant and doesnt text me hardly and we havent hungout in like 2 weeks which is very hard since we hungout like everyday for like almost 2 months. he says he misses me and wants to hes just been busy and now is all worried and stressed but idk what to do. I know its wrong hes cheating on her but thats not what I need to know about. idk why he would be changing his mind about all this now im just confused and I want things to go back to how they were so advice please.
bella1
Asked Aug 14, 2010
You say you know it's wrong. The reason it's considered wrong is somebody always gets hurt. Often it's all three people involved in the triangle. "Cheating" is always a temporary arrangement. It sounds like he's moving on now.

To understand why, imagine the position he would be in now if the three of you get together to hang out. It would then become two girls sharing the same boyfriend. He'd be afraid his girlfriend will find out if she doesn't know now. The simplest solution for him is to avoid you and his girlfriend getting together.

The lessons to learn from this are that people who cheat are very selfish and if he'll cheat on his current girlfriend, he'll cheat on you if you become her replacement.
Rob
Answered Aug 14, 2010
girl youll be fine theres plenty of other guys out there trust me found out the hard way and now I'm with the love of my life Just hang on girlfriend and as for the cheqating thing no girl wants to go out witha guy thats like that cute or not!!!
funnigurl
Answered Aug 14, 2010

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