I NEED HELP. GUY WHO LOVES ME MIGHT NOT GO WITH ME! HELLP!please!

a guy goes out with me and dumps me at army cadet camp cause of anger problems and cause he dosent want to hurt me. the next day we both go home from camp. so I dont get to tell him that I dont care if he has anger problems.

he goes out with a rebound girl and asks me to be friends. he then tells me he is in love with me. and I tell him I am in love with him. we have this whole game called random where you ask any question and the other person has to answer. so he is asking stuff like :

how long have you loved me,
do you like me kissing you,
what do I mean to you.
i ask him the same questions and he answers stuff like (using the order of questions above) ..
since I first talked to you
its the best thing in the world
everything

all his friends say we should go out and that he should (in their own words) DUMP THE OTHER GIRLS ASS. but he isnt deciding and keeps telling me to wait and see. he lives in a different town than me and so unless I get him to meet somewhere, I dont get to see him untill september.

i tried confronting him and I think I said some things I shouldnt have (for which I have apologized). but now he is in a mood with me.
but thie anxiousness is KILLING me.. I dream about him every night and I really really cant see life without him.
i want him to choose me but I think I have messed stuff up.
what do I do to make him choose me!!!!?????
i_like_cereal
Asked Aug 12, 2010
u need to get on with your life, and be patient. You will always find the 'right' guy for you when you least expect it. Stop being sooo desperate! Desperate is a ugly.
webeazi
Answered Aug 26, 2010
well hunn, seems to me that if this guy really loved you, ya'll would've already been together. now, if he has a reason for not asking you out, then... well thats a different story. but, I dont think he does. this guy reminds me of this douchebag I know. I wont say any names but i'll call him ... BUBBLES! (:
anyways soo BUBBLES wanted to go out with people at the same time A LOT.
so he tried to get my sister. he was goin out with this other girl and she had no idea this was happening. but he turned out to be a douche (as we all now know) and nobody likes him. but hunn, if he's like BUBBLES, then you wont want to be getting all up in his drama.
hope this helps (:
loveya
Answered Aug 27, 2010
Ok firzt yurr really pretty. and if u r not 100% he wants to be wit yu then experiment a little cause yu might never know if yu are attracted to girls.;)
amanda143
Answered Oct 16, 2010

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