How do you get to know a girl that shows signs that she likes you but says she hates you?

every time I try and talk with her she seem's to want to bight my head off. but I'll give you three instances on why I think she likes me

1. I wink at her in the hallway and her face light's up

2. she keeps looking at me in the lunch room.

3. I just sent her a message saying how her summer is going and she replied saying "hey sexy" after that she sent back a reply saying "look, that was'nt me that was my friend. Now stop trying to be my friend and move on with your life so I can move on with mine"

I sent back a reply asking why she did these things. I also told her that I was a friendly person to begin with. and that I was not trying to hurt her feelings but just trying to make her happy. (I only did some gentleman like thing's....like hold the door for her when I had a chance and say nice things like "I hope you are enjoying your day") I will admit I might be persistent but that's it.... I am a genuinely nice guy.

what am I to do?

I think she likes you but you may need to be a bit more of a challenge. If the "Mr. Nice Guy" thing isn't working, try ignoring her. Let her open the door for herself. If she is seriously interested that will get her attention. If she doesn't respond, find a girl that appreciates a "nice guy."

Young Gentlemen! You are at first step starting Love Her! She has empty feelings for the now. Like is a sister of the Love! So decide yourself. This feeling more powerful when it is first time. Luck!!

Dude just take it slowly I was going throught the same problem for 2 1/2 months, but now she can't help but like me. I would just try to relax and ignore her hang out with some other girls if she likes you she'll come around and that's when you strike like a viper! Good Luck to you bro!