Why do guys overreact about a relationship that lasted only three days?

okayy, so this dude IMs me on facebook. hes just like "heyy" and im like "heyy do I know you" and then thats basically the direction it went to. then after that he asked me out and I said yes (yes I know it was a stupid move to say yes to a guy I dont know). so then we go out for like... a weekend then he tells me he loves me and all this junk. then I break up with him because I think its going too fast. now I didnt tell him that. why I do not know. anyways so then his sister goes and posts this thing on my wall saying that im low and everything for breaking up with her little brother.and all that stuff. then my sister comes in and starts commenting on it. and im here and I honestly dont care about the drama. so then the dude's sister and him and my sister are all fighting. then my sister's 16 year old friend comes in and stands up for me.then the dude's sister is still commenting. so then I get on facebook and say" can we like not be immature? I mean really I said sorry!" then the dude comments and says "sorry doesnt fix everything" and then I said " I realize that but can we not be immature?" and so then he and his sis keep on going and going and going and im like...wdd. why do guys overreact about a THREE DAY RELATIONSHIP?
loveya
Asked Jul 28, 2010
im a guy and I dont overreact like that. it sounds like he was a bit obsessed with you almost. he really shouldnt have said that he loved you, considering you only dated for 3 days. to me it sounds that he is incredibally immature and needs to grow up.
night_angel
Answered Jul 28, 2010
thank you! (:
loveya Jul 28, 2010
its no problem. I have more of an insight into these sort of things since most of my friends are girls
hahaha, nice (;
loveya Aug 02, 2010
He probably has never had a gf before you, not that I have had many, but he sounds like he can't even fight his own battles and has to make his sister do it for him, plus, if you didn't know hm, then that is a great reason not to date him in the first place. He just wants to act really immature and he is probably pissed that he finally got a girlfriend and then she dumped him so quickly.
gingerkid
Answered Aug 02, 2010
yeahh I agree. thank you! (:
loveya Aug 02, 2010
i agree too... online relationships fail at the best of times. they arent proper and what are you supposed to do when you cant even see him. no I think you did good dumping him.
he probably hasnt had a gf before so when he figured out he liked you then he overread it and sayd he loved you WAY too soon.
his sister needs to grow up. people break up. people change their minds. and she should realise it isnt up to her to fight her bro's battles.
i think you did the right thing
haha yayyy! thankk youu (:
lordyy, he's startin all this drama with all of my friends! its annoying!
loveya Aug 27, 2010

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